Jeez, people. Calm the hell down. lezlers has already said she loves this guy. I’m sure she has good reason. If you commit to a relationship, then you work through all the problems, not just the easy ones.
lezlers, I know you and he have gone round and round about this, and that he is engaging in some serious avoidance. I don’t know what to tell you other than it’s going to take a commitment on both your parts to fix it. Don’t let him change the subject, don’t let him turn it back around on you, and make sure he knows just how serious this is to your relationship. If you can, get him to go talk to someone with you.