When I enrolled the twins in nursery school last year, I was given the usual Handbook for Parents with all kinds of information on the school’s policies and operations. It also included the standard “When it is their turn, make sure your kids bring healthy treats to share with the group!” statement next to a brief lecture on nutrition and the importance of not sending your kids to school strung-out on sugar.
We brought apple slices and graham crackers, yogurt and bananas; that seemed to be fine. I restrict their sweets anyway. My kids eat too many pretzels, but I know better than to give them more than a tiny amount of sugary treats (very little juice, and NO ice cream).
But then, a few months later, the TEACHERS started supplying candy to the little rugrats. Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, Valentine’s Day, Easter, on and on. And not in small quantities, either – 20 pieces of candy is a LOT when someone only weighs 30 lbs.
They were sneaky about it, too - they’d have the kids make some kind of candy transportation device as their craft du jour, and the teachers would load them up with the goods and put them in the kids’ “cubbies” to be retrieved at the end of the day (along with whatever toys the kids had brought from home - my son brought his fireman pajamas for a few weeks there).
So the kids KNEW damn good and well that they had candy coming to them.
You can’t make a scene taking their candy away in the hall at school, people would notice and it’s loud in there already, nobody wants to hear piercing shrieks and wails. Even out in the parking lot there are witnesses, although it is kind of amusing to think of 15 mothers wrestling their small fry to the ground on the asphalt.
No, instead I’d let mine carry theirs to the car (I was busy holding their hands, jackets and miscellaneous debris anyway). Once they got inside, the fight was basically over. They’d have 4 pieces unwrapped and in their mouths before I even got them buckled in.
So my question is, do I protest this wanton distribution of sugar to the Director before the new year begins? Or does this make me a big grump?