When I was 16, I saw some younger teenagers hurling abuse and stones at an old man. I crossed the road, walked with him to a more populated area, then carried on my way.
The teenagers caught up with me. One of them claimed I’d said something about her - I hadn’t; they were strangers and I didn’t want to pick a fight. They all came over and hit me, kicked me and spat on me, and finally the eldest one held my head over some park railing spikes while her little brother kicked me.
This was on a very quiet road, but eventually a man in a suit walked past. The kids let me down and I ran towards the man, saying hey bro, how’s dad? Pretending he was my brother, but whispering to him to just walk with me until we got somewhere safer. The teenagers followed at a distance and we really weren’t that far from safety.
He ran away.
A grown man ran away from a young girl asking for help.
That’s one of the most despicable things I’ve seen.
Another one from my teenage years: walking around trying to find my friend, and seeing a van slow down and someone toss her out the back. Bloody, bruised and delerious. She’d been raped by the men in the van; her “boyfriend” had given her to his cousin and his friends. We staggered slowly back to my house, passing several people who looked away. We never went to the police because it would not have turned out well for my friend and her family.
When I was heavily pregnant, a girl and her bf attacked me and held a knife to my womb. I was quite young so maybe the passersby thought it was a gang thing or something. My crime was yelling at her boyfriend for cycling into me on the pavement.
I’ve also seen a gang attack a kebab shop worker with a samurai sword. A shoot-out on the street like something from TV. An old lady, clothes torn, face in pieces, blood dripping down her thighs, shrieking about the men who’d done it. She was trying to walk to the hospital and was nearly there so I took her the rest of the way.
But hey, no ratty flags.