A totally bizarre and horrific incident occurred in Bloomington, IN, involving a guy who I actually knew, Mike Griffin, and a literature professor, Don Belton. The incident happened at the end of 2009 but the trial is now going on. You can take your pick of news links to the case here, but to summarize: Mike Griffin stabbed Don Belton to death. Belton was a black literature professor of some renown. This alone was shocking enough, but even more surprising was Griffin’s reason for doing it. According to him, he was raped by Belton.
Local opinions are ranging from the idea that Griffin genuinely was raped by this man, and killed him later, to the idea that he may have had sexual relations with him voluntarily, felt guilty about it afterwards, and then killed him.
Lots of people, as you may imagine, have said: “Rape? Come on! How could this big, tough guy have been raped by this small, effeminate gay professor?” And at first, it seems like an understandable thing to say. But: would anyone deny that a rape could involve drugs and/or alcohol to intoxicate the victim to the point of non-consent? Any human being in the world can be raped, if the rapist has drugged them. It doesn’t matter how big, strong and dangerous they are.
If some big, strong athletic woman publicly accused a small timid man of raping her when she was under the influence of alcohol, I doubt anyone would cast any doubt on the veracity of her claim. But the equivalent of this has happened here, and yet people are still insisting that a rape couldn’t have occurred because the supposed victim is so much larger and stronger than the accused rapist.
I must say, I doubt that Griffin killed Belton out of bigotry. I knew Griffin during high school (we played rugby together, actually) and he was not a bigoted guy at all. He never seemed homophobic (he was an active member of the school theater production, not exactly the environment of an anti-gay bigot.) I recall him being on the politically liberal side. He was a very nice guy, and he never seemed violent (off of the rugby field, anyway.) I can only imagine that he was traumatized in combat or that his brain was affected by the explosion of a bomb (he suffered a concussion and bleeding from his ears, if I recall correctly. There must have been brain damage.)
What do you think really happened here?