There’s a new guy who’s been in my office for about 2 weeks now. He sits in an adjacent aisle, about 10 feet away from me as the crow flies. He’s not sick and doesn’t have a cold because he talks normally. But he does a compulsive sniff at least once a minute. We spend 40 hours a week working in adjacent aisles AND IT’S DRIVING ME FUCKING MAD. Especially in the evenings when there are fewer sounds in the office to cover the sound up/absorb it. I hear him sniff once, get kinda grossed out and peeved, then await the next one which comes with regularity within 15-45 seconds. It gets really hard to focus on anything else.
I don’t know the guy. I wouldn’t presume to talk to him about it. I know he can’t likely help it and may not even be aware of it. But I wanted to vent (fffffffffFFFFFF!) and I wonder if I complain about it, could I maybe get my cubicle moved? Or should I resort to suffering through it forever? bleh. blehblehablaehalfhsdfkjh
My brother does this, and it’s infuriating. I tend to only see him at Christmas fortunately, so I’m usually capable of putting up with it for a couple of days. A few years ago, I found myself sharing a room with him and discovered to my horror that he does it in his sleep.
SniffSniffSniff… <pause> SniffSniffSniff…
Eventually, in an attempt to get some sleep, I decided to try the counting sheep trick, and count sniffs in an attempt to nod off. I got to around 300 before giving up and moving to the sofa in the living room.
I have no advice to give, but I really do sympathise.
If the guy in question happens to in fact be my brother, then you have my permission to give him a smack.
If it bothers you enough, talk to him about it. If not, suck it up or put something in your ears.
If it were me, I’d just respond to every sniffle with an over-the-top sniffle/snort of my own until he gets the picture and shuts the fuck up. But then, that’s probably one of the reasons I no longer work in an office.
Decongestant alone may actually not help much if the problem is post-nasal drip, rather than congestion.
-VT, long-time post-nasal drip sufferer who a) really tries not to annoy his cube neighbors with constant sniffling, b) has already had sinus surgery, and c) has tried an array of different prescription nasal sprays and oral antihistamines without much success. <snif>
Tourette’s doesn’t mean swearing. It’s a tic disorder and the tics can include sniffing, coughing, or throat clearing.
If he really does have Tourette’s, there’s not much you can do about it. I had a boss that would cough a single, loud, hoarse cough every two minutes or so. She had already been to several doctors who had offered no solution, so the rest of us just had to live with it.
I know it’s not exclusively swearing, but I’ve never heard that it expressed itself as sniffles. I googled “Tourette’s sniffles” and the only hit I got was this thread.
My son has Tourette’s and his only ‘vocal’ tic is sniffing. I truly sympathize. However, everytime I want to strangle him because it’s driving me nuts, I think about what he has to deal with.
In fact, in speaking with his pediatrician, most people who end up on tic medication do so because they are bothering others and not themselves.
However, it is possible that the guy is just sniffly. It wouldn’t hurt to have a non-threatening chat with him. He might not even be aware that he is doing it let alone that it is aggraviting others.
Thanks for the white noise/fan suggestion, I don’t know why that didn’t occur to me! And for the sympathies. I can’t put on headphones or earplugs because it’s a call center and I have to hear my phone beep. But I don’t have noise-canceling so I can still hear him through the headset. argh
But strangely enough, a solution to the problem has fallen out of the sky and bonked me on the head. I got offered a shift change from second shift to a “normal” work schedule! (Which I have been on a waiting list for since I started here in 2008!) So I’ll be doing 830-5 while he’s still on 330-midnight. And 330-5 is a very busy part of the day for us, so I don’t expect to be bothered by it after Friday. hooray
