The Other Shoe is dead.

I’m at a loss for words except thst I’m sorry for your loss.

I am so sorry for your loss.

I’m sorry I can’t be there in person, I would if I could hugs

I’m so sorry. :frowning:

I’m so sorry. My thoughts are with you and yours.

{{{purplehorseshoe}}}

Oh, no.

Rest in peace, John.

So very sorry to hear this.

Purplehorseshoe, been thinking about you guys all day. Just tell the folks that Dopers are a biker gang you’re part of… Seriously, I wish I could come to the memorial & give you a big hug, but (((((()))))))) will have to do. If there’s anything else I can do, let me know.

Shit

[[[purplehorseshoe]]]

I am so, so very sorry. {{{purplehorseshoe}}}

If you want to cheer yourself up, try thinking of things for the service that would startle relatives, but Mr. Shoe would have thought funny.

I know I want champagne and chocolate covered strawberries at my memorial reception, not the usual little sandwiches and salad thing that church ladies put together(not that those aren’t okay)

I think the body donation is a splendid thing. My mother, a retired RN, has arranged for that. Mom went through nursing school on a scholarship, and wants to “give something back”.

As I said before, and so have many, call on us if there is anything you think we can do. Will there be an obituary with an online memorial book? Although that might get to close to home.

Take care of yourself, eat and sleep well. You need to keep your strength up.

I’m sorry for your loss, purplehorseshoe.

I’m so sorry to hear this. I wish there was something I–or anyone else–could do. Hang in there and know that we are all thinking of you and Mr. Shoe.

Sorry for your loss.

Oh no. My condolences.

The kind that has company; you would not be the first spouse in the world to miss a memorial, I promise.
If your parents in law are more extroverted than you, consider asking them to deal with the receiving line.

I’m so sorry for your loss.
Rest in Peace, The Other Shoe.

I’m very sorry, purplehorshoe.

You have my deepest sympathy, purplehorshoe.

Black humor…

When my boyfriend died last summer someone brought a balloon for his son to release at the memorial service. She said, “I got a heart shaped balloon since he had a heart attack.” My response: “It’s a good thing he didn’t have liver cancer, that would have been a hell of a balloon to find.” What I’m saying is, any port in a storm. Do whatever healthy things that you need to do to get through this.

{{{purplehorseshoe}}}

Oh, how awful. I’m so, so sorry for your loss.