My heartfelt condolences.
Oh no!
((((((BiblioCat))))))
I’m so sorry to hear this. Wish I’d had more time to get to know danceswithcats. My thoughts are with you, Bibliocat, and I wish there was something I could do.
He was one Doper whose posts I always enjoyed.
RIP,danceswithcats.
Wow. Didn’t see that one coming. Bad Bad Bad Thing.
Holy crap.
Cross-link to memorial service planning thread: Memorial service for danceswithcats - Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share - Straight Dope Message Board
Oh no, BiblioCat! I’m terribly saddened and shocked by this, I always really liked danceswithcats.
My heartfelt condolences.
I just saw this thread. I am very sorry to hear this. From his posts here, I never would have expected something like this to happen.
At least you probably made his final years happier than they otherwise would have been.
I think everyone has “what ifs” and regrets after someone dies, but I do truly think that you should not blame yourself.
I am a physician who has worked in psychiatric hospitals. I know a psychiatrist who says to their patients, “If you really want to kill yourself, I can’t stop you.” Even if someone winds up in a locked psychiatric hospital, the day comes when the person is sent home and it is up to that person to make the choice to continue treatment. If even a professional trained in mental illness can’t force someone to get better, well, a loved one with no training in mental illness certainly can’t fix everything either.
You did the best that you could do just by loving him and trying to get him to consider getting help.
I hope that if anyone knows how to get in touch with his daughter they will save these photos and some of the memories about him for her sake in case she would like to have them someday.
I’m so sorry. What a terrible loss. 
My condolences.
My condolences. What very sad news.
How very sad. I’d only met Paul a couple of times, but he offered me some really good advice about power tools via email. I had no idea he was dealing with such demons.
{{{BibKitty}}}
Oh, wow. I had no idea. He always seemed so together to me. Wow. My condolences and… well.
jeez.
My condolences, BiblioCat. I’m so sorry.
sigh I hope it worked, 'cats.
What can I say…It is sad. He will be missed.
I’m so sad to hear about this. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. This is going to hurt many people for a long time, and I hope everybody can find the strength to work their way through this in their own way.
Peace and love…
I met Paul at the first Gettysdope. I was very surprised to learn that there was another doper who not only lived in our small area, but was actually just across town from me.
He always let me use his grill for Gettysdope, and he was quick to lend a hand if you needed it. I remember having a problem with my truck a couple of years ago. I posted some questions about it in GQ, and Paul immediately offered to help me fix it that weekend (we fixed it that Saturday at his house).
Unfortunately, even though he was only right across town from me, I didn’t see him much outside of Gettysdopes.
He was a good friend. I’m going to miss him.
Here are pics from last year’s Gettysdope. He’s in a few of them near the top of the page.
http://home.comcast.net/~sokosfamily/dopefests/dopefest2008.htm
He was a good poster.
may he find the peace he sought. my thoughts and prayers for strength and peace for all who know and love him.
may his memory be eternal.