The Stupidest Thing I ever Did

July of 1987. I was about to enter my sophomore year of high school. Mike (a friend of mine) and I were at his house enjoying the fruitful bounty (or is it “bountiful fruit”?) of fireworks that my dad had bought me. Now bear in mind that I live in Illinois, and all fireworks of the “exploding” variety are illegal here. The old man had gotten these fireworks in Illinois, so they were only of the “spark-shooting” variety. Pretty drab, but what are you gonna do?

One of the fireworks was this green-paper-covered gem that was about two feet long and maybe two inches in diameter. I set it on Mike’s driveway, walked up, lit the fuse, stepped back, and…

…it shot sparks, just like every other damn firework that we had lit thus far. It didn’t even whistle! After watching the 12-inch-long jet-trail of sparks that this thing was sputtering out, I decided that I had enough of this boring-assed legal-in-Illinois crap.

You know that little tag on every single firework in existence that says “Set on ground / light fuse / step away”? Neither did I. At the time, my friend Mike was on crutches so I thought that it would be a real hoot to pick this firework up and shoot sparks at him with it. After all, he can’t exactly run away from me, can he? Yeah, I know, I was a great friend to have back then.

So I pick it up and start running after him with this thing in my hands (I’m holding it not unlike how one would hold a rifle), and then it happens.

pop

That’s all I heard. Apparently the blast from this thing was loud enough to make Mike’s mom come out of the house, but all I heard was just a quick pop, following by the most incredible ringing in my ears as total deafness took ensued. I might have been a little freaked out about the fact that I had suddenly gone deaf, if it weren’t for the fact that I was blinded too. All I could see was white. Talk about panic.

After about 60-90 seconds or so (and I’m wildly guessing at these times) my vision started to come back to me; everything slowly faded back into view much like what happens when you turn an older television set on. About 30-60 seconds after that, I was slowly starting to make out faint sounds again.

As my senses started to return to me, the first thing that I was aware of was Mike standing right next to me beating the hell out of me! I then realized that my shirt and hair were on fire, and he was really trying to pat the flames out.

Around the time that I had been extinguished to his satisfaction, Mike’s mom came running out of the house asking what had happened and if I was all right. I was still in shock; I remember just mumbling, “Uhhh, a firework went off.”

She led me into the house and ran cold water in the kitchen sink for me to run over my hands. It actually felt good…until I looked down at my hands. It was just like a scene from a sci-fi movie. I watched as the skin around my hands started to tighten, and then eventually crack and split open. I turned my hands over and watched this process travel up the around my hands and up my forearms.

I deftly summarized my situation with a cursory, “Uh-oh.”

Mike’s mom saw what was happening and told me to get in her car, as she was going to take me to the emergency room. I said that I needed to call my mom and let her know what was going on. I distinctly remember watching my hand shard away before my eyes as I was dialing my phone number.

Once at the emergency room, I was led to a bed where my shirt (well, what was left of it) was cut off of me, and cloths were laid over my arms while saline was poured on the cloths to give me relief until the doctor could see me. Mom and Dad arrived shortly thereafter.

Around this time, the pain started to become unbearable. I was given some kind of shot as a pain-killer, which didn’t do crap. The doctor examined me and found that I had second-degree burns on both hands and forearms, with a little third-degree burning in both palms and my right wrist. He then announced that the burnt flesh on my arms and hands would have to come off. Again, all I could do was mutter, “Uh-oh.”

The doctor produced the biggest damn pair of tweezers that I had ever seen, and I bit down on a washcloth as he removed the skin from my hands and arms. My mother - who is a registered nurse - almost threw up and passed out. That was comforting.

Once I had been exfoliated, my hands and arms were covered with a white cream and wrapped in gauze and I was sent on my way, with instructions to see my family practitioner the next day. Needless to say, I didn’t sleep very well that night.

The next day we went to our family doctor’s office. The nurse had me sit on the table, where she removed all of the gauze bandaging that I had on. She then told me that “the doctor will see you shortly”, and she left the room. Ever had bare nerves exposed before? Man, the slightest little bit of breeze made it feel like my arms were on fire all over again. So I sat there with both arms in front of me waiting. And waiting. And waiting.

Finally the doctor comes in, takes one look at my arms, and asks, “Who put all of this white gunk on your arms??” When I told him that it was done at the ER, he said, “Well, that stuff has got to come off!” Guess how? Yup, with a scrub brush. He literally scoured the cream off me. Ouch.

So that’s basically the long and the short of it. For a while we thought that I’d have to have skin from my hiney grafted onto my arms (insert joke here about how I wouldn’t know my ass from my elbow), but what ended up happening was that the doctor had this mesh-like wrapping that he wrapped my arms and hands with, which served as a “template” of sorts for my skin to grown into. And I’ll be damned…it worked. After the skin initially grew back, both of my arms swelled and turned into the biggest damn blisters that you’ve ever seen, but everything eventually grew back.

The only complication cropped up when the skin around my wrists grew back in. I hadn’t kept my wrists stretched since it hurt too much, and the skin that grew in didn’t allow for me to stretch my wrists back. In other words, I would have been permanently “limp-wristed”. I couldn’t have that, so I just stretched them back - ripping the skin in the process - and let them heal back that way.

Really, the only lingering signs that I still have are that my bottoms of my forearms and my hands will not tan properly…they just get kind of red and splotchy. But outside of that, everything is fine. I really could’ve been a lot worse off that I was. When you consider that I was holding the firework in front of me, and it caught the back of my shirt and hair on fire, I think that I came out okay. Hell, I’m lucky that I wasn’t permanently blinded.

If you’re the type that demands visual aids, see http://www.arcadeparadise.org/sa/firework1.jpg . This picture was taken about a month after the fact, once everything had pretty much grown back.

Oh yes, how did I end up in a huge fireball with a firework that was only supposed to shoot sparks? The only thing that I can surmise is that the gunpowder in the firework must have somehow gotten compacted.

The only real highlight of the evening: When my parents arrived at the ER, my mother - in true “mom” fashion - right away asked me where the hell I had gotten these fireworks. Imagine her delight when I blurted out, “Dad bought them!” Poor guy.

After smoking dope (one of the 6 times I have done so) I attempted to drive home. After being on the road two minutes I decided I didn’t want to use my left hand to signal so I used my right and shifted into reverse at 25 mph. Car stopped quite suddenly. Drove home very cautiously after that. Dumb.


The other day I made a vaguely irreverent reference to homosexuals in front of a coworker who I think is gay…I felt like such an ass…


In 3rd grade I failed to notice Kimi liked me.
In 6th grade I didn’t even try to kiss Nikki when I was alone with her in her home…and she wanted to…sad sad sad…


My 5.5 year relationship lasted way too long…


I lost over $3000 trying to play commodities…ouch…


I told a bunch of the 14 year old girls I coach that I once dropped acid. I just know that is going to come back and bite me in the ass some day… but I don’t really regret it…maybe I will eventually.


Wow I can’t believe I came up with so many examples. At first I couldn’t think of anything…


When I was like 6 years old I purposely pushed my younger brother down the stairs. God I was such a stupid little shit. He wasn’t seriously hurt.


When I was in elementary school I picked on a kid until he kicked the shit out of me. I warned him I knew karate…but I was imagining things. I was still a stupid little shit.


But all of these stupid mistakes have helped make me who I am today. I have learned from them…and none of them have left me permanently disfigured or handicapped…so far.


I don’t eat well or take good care of my teeth. I think that in the long run may be my most costly stupid act.

This is not the stupidest thing I ever did:
7th grade, summer, I learned how to walk on homemade stilts, made out of 2x2’s and a couple of wedges. I progresively moved my footrests higher and higher as I grew more confident, until they were about 3ft off the ground. This was the limit, because now I was holding the very top of my poles when walking. When I got good at that height, I decided to add length to the bottom. My only raw material was old formica counter top, so I sawed four 2 inch wide strips off the end of the counter, and added another three feet to the length of my poles by nailing 2 strips to the bottoms. Now my foot rests were six feet up, so I leaned my stilts against our shed, climbed on the roof with a ladder, and lowered myself down onto the stilts. I leaned away from the shed, and immediately realized that all that lumber is excruciatingly hard to lift off the ground with one arm. It was all I could do to take staggering out of control steps, but I did so, grunting and heaving with all my strength, because now my eye level was like 11-12 feet off the ground, and falling from that height did not appeal to me. Finally I staggered back and forth, and made it the full length of a long yard, and between the porch and house could go no more. I had to jump. I landed on my feet and fell onto all fours. Hurray! Unhurt! I had just begun to stand, when an immense tree of timber landed squarely on the top of my head, baseball bat style. My head rang like a bell, I saw the world fade to black, blue, swirls all around.

Next, dumber:
My mom visits me and my family. She like spicy hot foods just like me. Here mom, smell this Sriracha sauce from Thailand, it’s great, and powerful too. She leans forward to take a whiff, I give the plastic squeeze bottle a little pinch to send a pungent puff to her nostrils, and the clogged tip gives a little sputter and sends a fat dollop directly into her open eyeball.

DO NOT SQUIRT HOT SAUCE INTO YOUR MOTHER’S EYEBALL.

For the sheer stupidity of the act itself, I would have to go back to 6th grade, when I was spinning a thumbtack on my desk. I had gotten the thing to spin for a really long time, and I was fascinated to see how long it could go, completely oblivious to all else.

Steve Schwartz, the kid seated in front of me, suddenly turned around and saw what I was doing.

“Let me see that,” he said, reaching for the tack.

“No!” I shouted, and slammed my hand onto the desk.

I don’t know what my face looked like as I lifted up my hand to reveal the thumbtack impaling my palm, but I’ll never forget the look on Steve’s.

“Okay,” he said meekly, and faced front again.

I’ve been doing a sort of ‘best of the sdmb’ search through the archives recently, and references to Scylla’s snowplow story pop up everywhere. The rest of this thread is great too, and even has one of Scylla’s stories that he recently re-told, which I thought was neat. I guess what I’m trying to say is ‘Bump.’

As for the stupidest thing I ever did, it’s hard to tell. I have a horrible memory, and try not to remember this sort of thing… the ones I do remember I’ve already posted. Here’s a couple minor ones:

I’ve been lucky with fire. I’m a pyro, and yet I’ve never been burt badly enough that I needed medical attention. One of the most painful ones wasn’t even pyro-related.

My dad had asparagus growing in the yard, and when you don’t cut all the sprouts when they’re at a palatible size, they grow big and sprout branches, like a bush. In the fall, it turns brown and dies out on the surface. So my dad decided to burn off the growth, as well as other twigs and stuff in the yard. I went out later that night, and being somewhat obsessed with fire, I bent down to blow on some embers, hoping to get it back into flames. What I didn’t notice in the dark was that I’d just placed my palms on the outer ember bed, which wasn’t visibly glowing due to a fine covering of ash. I recoiled and went running back inside. It hurt like hell, but the burns weren’t that bad. I slept that night in an uncomfortable position with my arms dangling off the bed so that my hands could stay in two cups of water.
My dad brought home a work vehicle on occasion. One night I was home alone, probably 16 years old, and dad had left a truck at home. This was a flatbed turbocharged diesel pickup truck, with a hydraulic plow on the front of it. At that point I’d never driven anything that was diesel or turbocharged, so I decided to go for a test drive. I took it out on Highway 61, heading south with the petal to the metal so that I could hear the whine of the turbocharger. The blade was a bit high, blocking some of the light from the headlights, and not quite straight. I decided to straighten and lower it, and having seen my dad plow on many occasions, automatically assumed I knew what I was doing.

There is one feature in this, and presumably most, hydraulic plows that I didn’t know about: it used the pump to move the blade left, right, and up, but would use the weight of the blade to evacuate the oil from the piston when it was lowered. So, when I turned the blade so that it was centered on the truck, it moved slowly, but when I moved the joystick to lower it, it instantly dropped to the concrete that was rushing by at seventy miles per hour. I could see the sparks in the rear view mirror.

I instantly raised it, slowed down, and turned onto a gravel road to let my heart slow down from it’s hummingbird mimicry. I wisely decided to take the truck back home, and hope no one saw the incident, or if they did they didn’t recognize the truck.

I wouldn’t have even remembered the story without Scylla mentioning ‘unintentional braking’ on his.

Ben

Stupid, stupid, stupid…

One day I decided to replace an electrical wall outlet without first turning off the power. Yes, it was a moronically stupid thing to do! But there was some (moronic) logic to my decision.

My landlord, who lived in the bottom half of the house, was in the garage using some serious power tools. The circuit breakers in the basement weren’t labelled, and I thought to myself “well, I could just turn things on and off until find the right circuit. But then, Brian is using power tools and I wouldn’t want to accidentally turn off and turn on the power to the table saw. It might cost him some digits if I did that!”

So I figured that I would simply “be careful” and heed the laws of science. I could unscrew all the wires, remove the old outlet, attached the wires to the new outlet, and as long as I didn’t complete the circuit I’d be fine. Musn’t touch both wires at the same time! That was my mantra for the procedure: “do not complete the circuit, do not complete the circuit…”

Actually, I did quite well. Being a girl with very fine hands, I could keep my little fingers well away from at the wires with room to spare. No problem.

At the very end, I did have some trouble setting the outlet back in the wall. Stupid wires were getting in the way, and I had no leverage or dexterity holding the thing from top to bottom the way I was (wires were attached at the sides of the thing). So I adjusted my grip a little as I was setting it in place in the wall.

Yee-ee-ee-ee-ee!!! A little corner of my pinky and the very edge of my thumb each came into contact with a wire. What a rush! Luckily, I only got some freaky-ass tingles in my arm that never tingled up past the elbow. Definitely didn’t like the sensation though.

Never again!

Stupid, stupid, stupid…

One day I decided to replace an electrical wall outlet without first turning off the power. Yes, it was a moronically stupid thing to do! But there was some (moronic) logic to my decision.

My landlord, who lived in the bottom half of the house, was in the garage using some serious power tools. The circuit breakers in the basement weren’t labelled, and I thought to myself “well, I could just turn things on and off until find the right circuit. But then, Brian is using power tools and I wouldn’t want to accidentally turn off and turn on the power to the table saw. It might cost him some digits if I did that!”

So I figured that I would simply “be careful” and heed the laws of science. I could unscrew all the wires, remove the old outlet, attached the wires to the new outlet, and as long as I didn’t complete the circuit I’d be fine. Musn’t touch both wires at the same time! That was my mantra for the procedure: “do not complete the circuit, do not complete the circuit…”

Actually, I did quite well. Being a girl with very fine hands, I could keep my little fingers well away from at the wires with room to spare. No problem.

At the very end, I did have some trouble setting the outlet back in the wall. Stupid wires were getting in the way, and I had no leverage or dexterity holding the thing from top to bottom the way I was (wires were attached at the sides of the thing). So I adjusted my grip a little as I was setting it in place in the wall.

Yee-ee-ee-ee-ee!!! A little corner of my pinky and the very edge of my thumb each came into contact with a wire. What a rush! Luckily, I only got some freaky-ass tingles in my arm that never tingled up past the elbow. Definitely didn’t like the sensation though.

Never again!