This isn’t some hippy-trippy poll and it isn’t the place for bad feedback on other people’s dreams. Most people have some dreams and often a way to realize them over time yet lots of people don’t ever do it. I really want to know why that happens in the long-term.
Mine dream is a getting a private pilot’s license. I took lessons but money was always an issue because they are expensive. I realized that I have the money for it now and can do it as much as I want straight through and finish yet I haven’t taken a lesson in two years. Not good. The only thing stopping me is myself and a private pilot’s license is good for life. I really need to get on that. I also want to hike the entire length of the Appalachian Trail from Maine to Georgia and I could make that happen but I haven’t. The failure point is just me.
I am more interested in what your ultimate dreams are however and why circumstances are blocking it. A spouse and kids to support are completely valid answers but lost of people don’t do what they dream of because of misperceptions. It isn’t that expensive to visit Paris for a long weekend and often cheaper than seeing my parents in Texas because I live in Boston with direct flights.
What are your dreams? What is holding you back from it? Honest question.