The word "fuck" is not against the rulrs

[BigT]

Here’s the actual post. It ain’t gonna stay private.

@Czarcasm

Dear BigT,

You have received a warning at Straight Dope Message Board.

Reason:

Use of inappropriate language

Inappropriate posting in IMHO.

Original Post:
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@astro

That’s the whole point. What are her expectations of willfully re-engaging the abuse scenario again and again while telling these flesh crawling tales of this creep molesting her. If I get beaten up every time I go into a biker bar, at some point there should be a mental association that going to that particular bar leads to very unpleasant consequences and I should avoid that bar. This doesn’t seem to have happened here.

Read the fucking posts and stop being so fucking judgmental. She likes the friend, and the friend’s kid. She normally avoids the husband. But, about once a year or so, the guy is still around. She’s following you’re poorly worded advice, and you are attacking her for it.

I can’t believe you actually agreed with the comment that she is “asking for it.” Anyone with even the remotest bit of social intelligence knows that you are blaming the victim. Why the hell would you think that was acceptable behavior?

There’s absolutely no way you completely avoid all the jerkish people in your life. None.

Warnings serve as a reminder to you of the forum’s rules, which you are expected to understand and follow.

All the best,
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