BDBofSM is available (and on sale) at http://www.allbooks4less.com
Hell, it’s a gas! A straight buddy of mine bought it for me for Christmas a couple years ago. 
I also have a copy of “Real Men Don’t Eat Quiche” (and a gay buddy of mine got me that one in college).
Esprix
I haven’t read The Big Damn Book, But from the reviews you linked to, it sounds like you might also like “Iron Joe Bob,” by Joe Bob Briggs http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0871135531/qid%3D963880828/102-8227940-5426524.
This begins as Grapevine, TX’s take on male encounter groups, and wanders off into all things masculine. Chapter titles include “Cappuccino My Butt,” “Slaying the Inner Weenie,” and “Preparing Your Inner Warrior to Lie His Ass Off.”
The first time I read this book, I was on a full 10-passenger bus home from the airport. On a two hour ride. With strangers. I laughed until I saw stars.