I’m saying that most people enjoy socializing, and the music is an excuse. It gives them an excuse to touch each other and show off their physique, via dancing, and so they enjoy the fact that music enables that. And they like, in modern day, the political/cliqueish stylings of the band, as part of their personal identity for finding friends.
I would also say that they don’t like dancing either. If you get a dance song going, then the music is just something repetitive and consistent in tone and beat. And if you watch the people dancing, they’re just repeating the same one or two moves in a loop, to the beat, for however many minutes. If you ask them, they’ll say that they’re being “free” and “expressive”, but that’s clearly false. You could superimpose a 5 second clip on a loop over their live dance and it would line up.
Only a few people genuinely care about and are interested in the music, for the music. Only a few people genuinely care about and are interested in dancing, for the dancing. It’s really all about social interaction. Listening to the music or dancing on your own is just practice for when you’re going to need to display your knowledge for the rest of the group.
Personally, I’m just not a person who puts weight in words. The actions say the opposite of the words and I put 99% of the weight on actions.