Time for another of my periodic quasi-Luddite rants. :rolleyes:
I regularly find aspects of electronic devices/transactions difficult. When I experience such reactions, I sense it has the effect of compounding my dislike for so many aspects of electronic communication, which results in my feeling more frustrated, and on and on. My desire is to interact with these devices the MINIMUM amount needed to satisfy my pretty limited needs/desires. I get frustrated when those interactions do not seem reliable or simple.
Short story that set this off. My wife and I are trying to reconcile all of our insurance, etc. accounts, so she can use her home computer to access info that I have historically reached from my home and/or office computers. It has generally been a cumbersome, tho doable, process. But my primary insurance was a PITA. I had a very helpful person on the phone, and my wife sitting right next to me with her laptop. At 3 stages in the process, I did the exact same thing 3 to 5 times. The first several times, I received responses indicating I was unsuccessful for reasons the phone person did not understand. Then when I did the exact same thing one more time, it worked.
I acknowledge, this is a relatively minor thing - tho it did take 1/2 hour of my time I would have preferred to spend doing just about anything else. But I have such a strong preference for dealing with things I consider reliable, and which work in ways I understand. Too many times, when I experience a problem and ask for help from IT, they say something like, “Sometimes that happens.” Or the ever popular, “Turn it off and back on again.”
I’m not interested in studying up on how computers, telecommunications, and electronics work. I’d rather spend my time making music, or doing other things. And I have no interest in regularly messing around with my phone or computer, to figure out how things could be done differently, or whether upgrades have changed things. But I wonder how much my attitude/perception will cause me to get increasingly out of touch with how even simple things are done in our changing society.
Do any of you feel similarly? Is there any mindset or approaches you use to avoid getting frustrated? Do any tech fans/experts have any suggestions?
Datapoints - 56 yrs old, lawyer. So I’m not horribly stupid and incapable of learning. But I feel like I have a significant mental block re: much of technology. My lack of interest/dislike causes me to become increasingly ineffective in using it, which increases/reinforces my frustration, …