Three piece suits used to be commonly worn. I’ve never actually someone wear one outside of movies. I’m considering getting a new suit and wondering if it should be a two or three piece. This is for meeting clients and appearing in court rather than social situations in bars.
Is a three piece suit too much? If so, in what way?
If you like them, why?
I like them but if three piece suits are rebarbative to most people, then it would be counterproductive for me to wear one.
You know me, I am all for dressing up–but I think a three-piece suit is a bit “much,” unless you are trying to make an “I am so dapper you could just die” statement.
If you are not 100% sure you can pull it off, I would opt out.
I have a friend who wears one occasionally. He’s primarily a field scientist and spends a lot of his time covered in dust and/or mud, but he really enjoys dressing up and puts on the suit whenever the opportunity presents itself. In our field, though, it’s rare to find anybody in a suit (regardless of how many pieces are involved), so it comes across more as a quirk than an affectation.
For meeting clients or court appearances, I’d say you’ve got a mixed bag. I could see a use for it in particularly formal settings with clients, especially if you’re representing in old-money families or large, established companies. In court, though, I can imagine it weighing against you. When all your peers are dressed in a particular way, it doesn’t seem wise to me to stand out from them.
I like them, but don’t own any and don’t see myself taking up the habit any time soon. Anyway, I’ve already staked out my position as “the suspenders guy;” I don’t want to have to change to “the three-piece guy.”
It’s not current fashion among lawyers in the US. There’s nothing wrong with it as such, but it would look a little like you were being deliberately quirky, as with a bow tie or a fedora.
That said, there are indications that the three-piece is making a comeback at the high-fashion level, so it may not be long before the legal market picks it back up.
A semi-formal affair. Wedding, cotillion dinner, business meeting. Whenever the invitation says “black tie optional”. For best results, bring **Anaamika **with you.
And just for the record, it’s extremely rare that a suit, much less a three-piece suit, is really appropriate for “social situations in bars”. You’ll want to be much more dressed-down at those times.
I own several. In any situation where a suit is appropriate, it’s fine (in my opinion) to wear a three-piece, you will stand out, but it isn’t at all inappropriate to wear a three piece suit in a suit-wearing situation.
They don’t seem to be in at the moment, not that I buy suits more than once a decade any more. But I’ve owned some and I like them. It helps to be thin.
Ditto - The way you dress communicates something to other people. In most cases with a suit you want to communicate, “I fit in - I understand the culture.” Typically you have clients or prospects or superiors who you don’t want to ruffle, so then I would recommend a standard 2-piece 2-button variety in dark gray. If you wear a 3-piece you are setting yourself apart from them, makes them just a tiny bit nervous about you, not a good thing. Conformity is key.
Now, if the situation is different - if you want to be noticed, if you don’t have to worry about ruffling others (if you are the owner or boss, or it’s a no risk social situation) then by all means, go for the 3-piece.