This may end up being a bit of a long read so I’ll be as quick and to the point as I can and elaborate on a point only when/if asked to.
I’m 20 years old, male, and I live in Toronto, Canada. For the last year I have been looking for a job and have been completely unable to find one. My resume is not amazing but I’ve always thought it was decent enough (6 month co-op at a Staples Business Depot as a sales associate, 6 month co-op as an apprentice auto mechanic, and a year as a journalist/blogger for a sports satellite radio station). I apply mainly to places I know for sure hire people in my age group and demographic in the past (all kinds of stores in malls, places like Zellers and Walmart, Blockbuster and so on, as well as fast food chains and the like - in short, exactly where you’d expect teenagers/20-somethings to be working). I have applied to roughly 200 places in the last calendar year (an estimate but I’d say give or take no more than 20 either way) and this has produced all of three job interviews, none of which have lead to work. I have, in a sentence, failed miserably.
I say none of this with heat or any trace of apathy, it’s just background for my questions. The thing is, I know people I went to school with rarely have any trouble at all finding jobs. I know a handful of people that get a job at one store in a mall, and when they quit or are fired a few months down the line, have looked for no more than a week or two before being hired at another store, even in the same mall. My own girlfriend was hired at a second place in addition to her first job at the second store she applied to, after a day of job hunting. Again, none of this is meant to paint a sad picture, it’s just how it is, but it can’t hurt to ask on here and maybe we’ll all learn some useful stuff from the responses in this thread.
Basically, I hear a lot of contradictory advice on how I should go about looking for work. I hear a lot of people saying x is a good technique when just the opposite seems smarter. I hear a lot of people saying definitely put y on your resume, and a lot saying never put y on your resume. What is the best way to attack the problem of finding a job in the places I’ve described? What similar experience do you have? What has your own experience told you is good advice to take in searching for work, and what is bad advice that should be ignored? What is the single most important factor? Is it a good first impression? A classy resume? Sheer persistence, calling back time and time again? Showing up to apply looking clean and respectable? Writing a cover letter? A combination of several things? How much of it comes down to sheer good or bad luck? What have you been told about job hunting that later turned out to be a lie, or false, or very rarely true at all? What are some of the ‘myths’ of it that you personally find to be untrue?
This is the sort of stuff I mean -
There is just three of dozens of examples of the kind of thing I’m talking about and this is the sort of contradictory stuff I’m hoping we can go some way towards killing in this thread.
I know a lot of this seems obvious, but the longer my own search drags on the more I hear contradictory advice from people and the more frustrated I get wondering why so many people I know seem to have such an easy time with it when I am (to my eyes) checking a good number of the boxes of things employers supposedly look for and haven’t found anything yet. What have you found to be the best ways to find work at this age?
I **don’t **mean this to be a ‘help me’ thread or anything, but as a way for all of us to discuss tips and tricks that will be helpful to anyone who’s in the same boat as me, techniques useful to anyone who needs all the help they can get. I can’t help but think it’s all largely luck at this stage of your life, but what are the little ways you’ve discovered that can tweak the circumstances and turn the tables in your favor? I’m putting this in GQ because that is where I think it belongs - a place for general questions on the topic, with hopefully some good general advice and tips to follow.
Cheers for any input, don’t be shy. Share your stories and advice for each other and hopefully we can help out a good few people in here.