An especially relevant topic for me this year, since my youngest is coming to terms with the non-existance of Santa this year.
First of all, there is no decision to make with regards to whether your kid will get the Santa indoctrination. Unless you very carefully monitor their TV use, Santa is ubiquitous enough that they are going to have to deal with the message. Heck, Santa is in the mall, on the streetcorner, in 90% of the sitcoms, in carols, on TV and radio commercials, and on 942,736,387,388,655,901 different decorations. (I counted.) So the choice seems to be one of “Shall I play along with this or not?” since the message is going to be received regardless.
IMHO, there is a price to be paid for the belief in Santa, but it is a small one. My youngest is 2 months shy of turning 7, and this year began to raise serious doubts about the whole Santa mythos. When asked point blank i the face of her doubts about whether reindeer could really fly, Santa could really live at the North Pole, and so forth, we had to tell her that there was indeed no Santa. Needless to say, she was disappointed, and a little angry. She does not really understand why adults lie to little kids about Santa, and it’s hard to articulate. In the end though, her Christmas was not ruined, nor her little heart shattered. By the time she was ready to hear that Santa wasn’t real, she was old enough to handle the idea, which is IMHO the way the deck is usually going to stack. The thing we were worried about was that she was going to go to school and inform all her friends about Santa’s nonexistence, which really ought to be the purview of the parents.
There’s definitely a tradeoff involved, but in the end I think it’s worth it. Small children believe in magic naturally, even without fairy tales being spoon-fed to them by adults, which any reading of Piaget or even casual observation will reveal. Kids’ play and entertainment are geared toward magical thinking in such a way that the world they live in truly is wondrous in ways we poor adults can appreciate only vicariously. The Santa mythos is one that manages to capitalize on this type of thinking in a shared way, and while disillusionment will be visited on them throughout their lives, the awe and wonder of a Santa visitation is available only for a few brief years. Let them have their Christmas magic while they can I say. The cost is small and the benefits are priceless.