gerkin or shampoo bottle?
A gerkin is not satisfying - but a shampoo bottle leads to bruising of the cervix. I’ll take “need to be satisfied in one of the myriad other ways” over “that ain’t fitting in here” any day.
So yes, size matters. Too big is worse than too small.
(There is a just right).
Now I feel bad. We were all newbies to the board at some point, racosun - and so far your netiquette has been very good. People here don’t mind newcomers making mistakes like posting in the wrong forum or not searching properly - it’s only people who are either trolling, “sock-puppeting” or just being jerks that aren’t well received. You did none of those things.
Welcome to the boards.
Size only matters in the extremes, IMO. Anything average to moderately-above or moderately-below and I can’t tell much of a difference (my experience). But if it’s exceptionally small, then, yeah, sorry - it likely ain’t gonna get the job done. And exceptionally large is just downright painful.
So, most guys are going to fit into that range where an inch either way just won’t be a big deal. (But, as the cliche goes, at that point it really is what you do with it!)
I think that one of the reasons that the topic keeps coming up is that it is a turn on for men to have women talk explicitly about sex. The size question is one of the few “not too creepy” ways to broach the subject.
Can I modify the question slightly? Do gay men care at all?
Um, by whose hands? By that definition, a “good sized dick” must be over 8" long, as my hand is roughly 4" wide.
I agree that proportion is important…unfortunately. I personally am smack-dab in the middle of the ‘average’ range, and I’d have no complaints except for the fact that I am 6’6" and proportioned so I look like a person of normal height until you see me standing next to someone. This makes my penis appear small on my body. Another inch and I’d look average, though I’d be bigger than most men.
I always thought it was the size of the tongue, not the penis, that counts the most.
Not so big where I feel compelled to put it over my shoulder and burp it.
:o
Do you know what made my Lola fall in love with me?
Six words.
“I have a twelve inch penis”.
Up until then she didn’t think I had a sense of humour.
I think my equipment is just fine the way it is even though it’s not really 12 inches in length.
It’s probably closer to 17.
Most women would consider this a normal size as long as they lived in a country where metric is the standard of measurement.
SC_Wolf is right. It’s more useful if you can pull it out and slap the forehead of would-be attackers.