Well, well, what a very long thread. Lots of hate- and lots of support. Now let me say this- I am a male, and hetero. The male body, no matter how good looking, does not excite me at all. But I have had several short relationships with transgendered female-types, and there was no problem with my libido- “Mr. Happy” got the “Female” message, not the Male message. Of course, there are also a few transvestites who look far too masculine for me- but the same could be said of some female body builders and some very masculine dykes (can we use this word without offending gays? In SF it doesn’t seem to be a problem, but I hope it isn’t offensive to any here).
Possible TMI & NFBSK follows. Warning.
For those men who say “ewww”- trust me buddy, at least for oral sex, there are few women that can top a transgendered female-type. They have had the equiptment, they know what to do with it. They also seem to be more free with their sexuality, and also sometimes have the male “bee” attitude as opposed to the female “flower” attitude- with thanks to the King of Siam for this analogy. 
However, I would ask discretely if I saw you, Eve- and was attracted. Why? Because many transgendered female-types are very cautious. They know that some men would react poorly if “surprised”. Thus, I would hint discretely that I “knew”- after we had “hit it off” for a bit. Seems to work for me, at least. I hope that wouldn’t offend.
As to the bathroom thing. Why have separate bathrooms at all? What is it about men that women don’t want to have them in the same bathroom? What is it about women that men don’t want them in the same bathroom? If it is because you don’t want someone who could be sexually excited by your state of nakedness, then I would guess that that would also mean that homosexuals should go into the “opposite” bathroom, right?
Personally, I have no problem sharing a restroom with women, or with transgendered, etc. I doubt if the sight of my penis is going to make them uncontrolably sexually excited. (large tho it may be <g>). Nor would the sounds of a woman making urination or defecation noises in a stall excite many men I know. I will admit that I might object to the liberal application of perfume (allergies, you know)- but the same goes for those awful mens aftershaves some use. Now THERE’S an “ewwww” for you.
Now, sure- there are men who would not be turned on by a transgendered female-type. And that’s OK- whatever floats your boat. I know some men who won’t go out with “fatties”, either. If “Mr. Happy” won’t “stand up & salute”- why waste everybodies time? But- just because they are not “your type”- you shouldn’t HATE them. Just don’t go out with them. More for me.