Except it’s nearly impossible to GET to live customer service workers.
I do agree that at least SOME of this is to reduce fraud, but the “A says B can help you, B says A can help” BS is a failure on the part of the agencies involved.
I think I’ve mentioned this somewhere on the boards before, but a year or so back, I needed to get a replacement copy of my deceased FIL’s SS statement from the prior year (1099? 1098?). Anyway - I spent an hour on hold waiting for an agent… then the person I spoke with was able to send me the document, to MY address (not the in-laws’ address), without any problem. I guess they figured that there was relatively little harm a scammer could do with that statement. I said something to that effect as the call was winding up, along with “What scammer would bother to wait an hour on hold?”.
It really was. A lot of these people were, well, not as educated or computer-savvy as most of us on the boards are, which didn’t help. And in many cases, money was so tight that spending 20 bucks or whatever to get a birth certificate was not easy to do.
Many of the people I dealt with had been victims of a widespread fraud a few months earlier, in which they got text messages to log in to their unemployment account to verify their info, and just click on the link in this text. The fraudsters had sent a bogus link, of course, and harvested the info and redirected the payments. So they were trying to straighten out that mess and get their benefits restarted. Which of course involved proving they were who they were.
My experiences then were a huge part of why I made DAMN sure my daughter (who lives in another state) has originals of the relevant documents, as well as a valid passport.
Of course, having all that stuff wouldn’t help with account screwups on the side of the agency, as appears to have happened with the OP, but it might help resolve it when it happens.
I personally found that the id dot me website, especially on mobile, was not terribly well designed. At least once when I was trying to use it for myself, I accidentally aborted the entire process by accident - and mine was one of the smoother experiences, from what I gather.