TVAA’s been banned? What a pity.
Of course, by “pity”, I mean “AIDS patient’s used condom”.
Some are born banned, others achieve banning, still others have banning thrust upon them.
The rest jump up and down screaming, “Ban me! Ban me! I double dog dare you to ban me!”
And that’s the bottom line - if you really need clarification of the Prime Directive, read tanookie’s linked thread.
See what TVAA did? Don’t do that.
FWIW, IMO, the essence of “thou shalt not be a jerk” varies from forum to forum. In GD, it is pretty simple - no personal insults, no calling other posters “troll” or “sock puppet”, attack the post and not the poster. In GQ, Cafe Society, IMHO, MPSIMS, same, with the added caveat that in GQ you should post on subjects you don’t know anything about, and stick to factual answers.
The Pit is more subtle, but have a read thru Lynne Bodoni’s Pit Rules. Again FWIW, my experience is that flames work best if they are not taken entirely seriously, either as flamer or flamee. A certain light-heartedness works best, if only because it allows the objectivity to come up with truly witty and amusing flames. Everybody loses their temper from time to time. You avoid meltdown (and banning) by at least trying to retain some detachment from the process.
Of course, another offense against the rules is to play Junior Mod. Therefore, take this for what it is worth - which ain’t much.
Regards,
Shodan