For this young dude, it’s somewhat akin to blowing my nose. I just get it done and move on. I have shit to do. No ceremony. No stretching or warmups. Just blow and go. My figurative tool is literally a tool: designed to perform a specific task. Much like hammering a nail, the ultimate satisfaction comes not from beating the nail, but driving the nail home.
No poll, but how do you get off? Do you really really get off, or do you just get off and go? I’d imagine that a female would approach the task as one polishing a hubcap. Calling the job done is more of a judgment call.
It depends on how horny I am and if I’m distracted or tired at the time. If I have other things on my mind, I won’t be able to focus that much, and it’ll be more difficult to come up with good fantasies. I’ll still come, but the whole experience isn’t as satisfying or enjoyable as if I block out all other thoughts. I usually masturbate every other day or every two days; but if I hold out for longer, or I’m particularly horny for whatever reason, the sensations and thoughts will be much stronger.
I would lean toward saying that it’s usually ‘really, really get off’, but sometimes it’s just because. Either I feel like I need it or I’m bored or it’s the 5th or 6th time that day, etc. But it’s hard to really say there’s really a ‘usual’.
No disrespect intended, but I wonder if there is a reverse correlation between masturbation sessions vs. sex with actual females. IOW, what the hell are you talking about here?
Female. It’s all business for me. Takes about two minutes and does, indeed, “drive the nail home.”
Maybe a few times a year I’ll have a more elaborate session of self-love, but generally I save the theatrics for a partner. Masturbation is just maintenance.
Depends on how long it’s been and the reason I’m doing it. The longer it’s been, the easier it is to enjoy for a longer period of time. But, if I’m doing it because I’m being distracted by how I’m feeling, it’s going to be quick.
Male. It is always in coupled with reading or viewing porn. If it is a porn clip I have not seen before, I’ll keep it on a slow stroke during the action, building to time my climax with the male actor in the scene. I know a lot of heterosexual men cannot stand to see penis in their porn, but I require a “stunt cock” to imagine that it is my penis being given by the women/women in the scene.
If I owned one of these (SFW), I’m sure my habits would be different.
It depends on my mood. sometimes, I just want to pull one off, so I open up a tried and true porn video, and 5 minutes later, I can move on with my day. Other times, I like to take my sweet time, browsing new material, and building up to a nice climax. Occaisionally, I will skip the computer and fantasize about something, but that takes more effort, and I have to be in a particular mood. Even the fantasies in my head play like movies, though.
I agree with this somewhat, but I don’t understand the “orgasm-face” shot right before the finish. It kills the momentum. Also, I hate 5 minute close ups of the dude’s balls. I need the guy there for context, I don’t actually want to look at his junk.
Surely men don’t need to actually see themselves ejaculate to know that they’ve had an orgasm. Well, women are the same – usually, when you have one, you just know.
If I have insomnia and I’ve decided to have an extended porn viewing session, I’m totally into it. If it’s during the work day and my horniness is distracting me from concentrating on business, it’s off to the men’s room and three minutes later I’m done and washing up.
