I have to admit I’ll give unsolicited advice if I really care about the person and see the possibility of helping. I’ve also learned to remind them (sometimes!) that free advice is worth every penny they’ve paid for it
What makes me most nuts though, is being asked for advice, only to be told why my advice is wrong, because they really wanted me to agree with them in the first place
I just cringe whenever someone approaches me and says, “May I offer a bit of advice?” My usual answer: “No, you may not.” Even worse is when they call it “constructive criticism”, which to me is an oxymoron. Sometimes they’ll disguise it as a “suggestion.” Any way you slice it, it’s still the same. I have trouble accepting advice unless I ask for it.
If you ask me,
you should never take unsolicited advice. I’ll tell you what you should do the next time someone gives you advice without you asking for it…
Hmmm, this wouldn’t be about any situation in particular, now would it?
Yes, in general one should refrain from giving unsolicited advice to complete strangers, unless it’s along the lines of “excuse me, but you may wish to remove the glob of spinach in your teeth.”