I will try to keep this as brief as possible.
My son’s mother and I are divorced. We share joint physical custody. He is with us each 50% of the time. I am responsible for 100% of his support, as his mother does not work. I provide for my son’s medical insurance and claim him as my dependent on my tax return.
My ex-wife remarried in 2004 and my son’s stepfather is an active military personel. She and her husband also have a son between the two of them. It is my understanding that my son is listed in DEERS (Defense Eligibility Enrollment Reporting System) as a dependent to my son’s stepfather. My son has a military ID from our local base. I believe that they also cover my son through Tri-care, even though he is covered through my health insurance.
On a comparison basis, my annual household income is signifcantly greater than theirs.
Over the next 18 months, my son will be making decisions about colleges and my ex-wife called me to discuss financial aid. It is my understanding that most colleges and universities will look at the household incomes of both parents when looking at need based financial aid. When completing the FAFSA (Free Application for Federal Student Aid) primarily for student loans, they look to the parent whom had the most custody during the 12 months prior to completing the application and if it is 50/50, they look to the parent that provided the majority of the support. In my son’s case, me.
My ex-wife, went on to say that our son would be eligible to receive GI Bill education benefits that can be assigned by my son’s stepfather. From what I’ve read, as long as the stepchild qualifies as a dependent, then the GI Bill benefits can be assigned, and they primarily use the DEERS system to determine this.
However, I know that two families cannot claim the same child as a dependent. I have claimed him as my dependent on my tax returns each year of his life. I’m pretty sure that if we both claimed his as a dependent on each families return, it would have been caught already by the IRS. Can a military personel claim a dependent in DEERS but not claim them as a dependent on their tax return?
Also since in addition to his stepson, my ex-wive’s husband may want to assign GI Bill benefits to his own son, currently in the first grade, in about 11 years. I would assume there is some limitation on to how many children these benefits can be assigned.
So basically, is my ex-wife even remotely correct about her husband being able to assign GI Bill education benefits to our son?