I’ve been away – at my animal-free farm (except for dogs & cats, snakes in the apple trees, buzzards floating overhead, bluebirds in the houses I put out, other birds that want to eat my cherries, carpenter bees trying to destroy my porch, deer that come out of the woods & stare at me, etc.).
When I worked for the American Cancer Society (c.1990-99) we were not permitted to have a sun tan because having one might mislead those with whom we dealt into believing that sun-tanning is a safe thing to do. We were likewise not permitted to have a “fake”, i.e. out-of-a-bottle sun tan because people would believe it was from the sun (or from an equally unsafe tanning booth).
Point I’m making or attempting to make is: if you believe strongly in something, you also wish to avoid the appearance of not believing in it; if you strongly disapprove of something, you wish to avoid the appearance of condoning it.
That’s why I was musing about vegans & “shoes that look just like leather.”
And, Daniel, if I know you are a vegan & see you in shoes that seem to be leather, I am going to wonder about your veracity, commitment, etc. I may not ask you if your shoes are plastic. I’m polite. I don’t really know you. I make assumptions based on what I see.
As a woman, I’m aware I have more choices than you in wearing apparal, and I would choose fabric over anything that gives the appearance of leather, if I were vegan. A vegan groomsman in my son’s wedding wore black canvas shoes. We had no problem with that.
Guess what I’m saying, & I don’t think I need go to the Pit to say it, is put up or shut up.