It’s time to come together as a people, as a country, as a society, and fight an evil that threatens the very foundation of everything we hold dear. And that evil, my friends, is politeness.
Oh, I know what you’re thinking. “But Sauron,” you say, in your oh-so-placating voice, “politeness is one of the hallmarks of an advanced society. It’s one of the things that separates us from the animals …”
You probably said a lot more, too, but frankly I stopped listening to you before you even opened your cake-hole. You wouldn’t have tried explaining things if you’d experienced the stupid politeness I’ve had to endure the past couple of days.
Stupid Polite Gesture #1: I’m on my way to work this morning. Sitting in traffic, listening to talk radio, waiting my turn to get on the interstate. In other words, minding my own business.
There’s an intersection controlled by a traffic light just before the on-ramp to the interstate. Traffic always backs up here, because a LOT of people get on the interstate at this on-ramp. I’m second in line at the traffic light … a white Honda Accord is ahead of me.
Anyway, the traffic light turns green. There’s space for about three cars just past the traffic light, before the backlog of wanna-be-on-the-interstate cars starts. The white Honda Accord in front of me pulls into the intersection, so I follow along like a good little traffic sheep. And then the Accord STOPS. I slam on my brakes, too, and try to figure out what the hell the driver is doing.
What she’s doing is, she’s being POLITE. She’s letting somebody on our right (who has a RED LIGHT) turn in front of her. “Go ahead, take my place in this line,” she’s gesturing to the turning car. “I don’t mind. Lalala!”
Yeah, that’s all well and good for YOU, missy, but I’m sitting here in the middle of the intersection with the heinie of my vehicle sticking out. You don’t mind that car taking YOUR spot, but that means YOU are now occupying what should be MY spot. Naturally, traffic isn’t getting on the interstate at ALL right now, so I’m stuck. I look like one of those jerks who try to beat the red light at the intersection and wind up blocking cross-traffic, when in reality I was just sabotaged by an idiot being polite. She’s all safe and secure sitting there beyond the traffic light, while I’m a massive glob of cholesterol clogging up the traffic artery. And it’s NOT MY FAULT.
Stupid Polite Gesture #2: I stopped at a fast-food place a couple of days ago for lunch. It was crowded, because … well, I don’t really need to explain it, do I? It’s lunchtime at a fast-food place in America. It’s not like we don’t go through this every single weekday. That’s why restaurant employees refer to the “lunch rush.” They understand the need to get people in, take their order, and move them out.
The good thing is, the line is moving pretty quickly. Soon there’s only one person ahead of me. He places his order, the counter girl rings it up, all is working smoothly.
And then the guy notices the girl is wearing an LSU pin on her shirt. (LSU was going to play Alabama in football the next day.) So he says something to her about the pin, and she laughs, and they start talking. It’s not really flirty-talk; just basic chit-chat about football.
The guy’s food comes. He’s already paid. And he’s still standing there talking. Standing there. In what should now be MY spot.
Now, I can’t really fault the guy. He’s talking to a cute girl (and, frankly, judging by his looks and apparent personality he doesn’t get to do that too often), so all is good in his world. But the girl isn’t wrapping up the conversation. She’s still just chatting away about the kicking game, and defense, and the ghost of Knute Rockne, and God knows what else. She’s being polite.
But I want to order and eat. I can’t do that, because politeness is blocking my way. I’m wishing the girl will tell him to get lost, or pull him onto the counter and ravish him amidst the French fries. Either way I’d get some resolution to this problem. As it is, I’m stuck in a politeness-induced limbo. If I switch lines, I’ll have to start the waiting process all over again. If I stay where I am, there’s a very real danger the counter girl will begin using pickles and sesame seeds to diagram a play for this guy on top of her register, and I’ll waste my lunch hour having to listen to them talk about how the wishbone was the greatest offense EVER without being able to order, pay for, and eat some crappy fast food.
I finally solved the problem by stabbing the guy in the kidney with a Maori spear I just happened to have with me. When he collapsed, I quickly stepped up to place my order, before the counter girl did something ELSE that was stupid and polite, like try to help him stop the bleeding.
Stupid Polite Gesture #3: This didn’t actually happen to me, but I saw it as it unfolded. Two guys at my office were approaching a door, one a few steps ahead of the other. The guy in front had his hands full with some boxes, but when he got to the door, he somehow managed to pull it open. Then he realized somebody else was behind him. So, instead of going on through the door, he tried to shift the boxes in his hands and use his hip somehow to hold the door open for the other guy. As a result, he lost his grip on one of the boxes, tried to compensate, and wound up dropping all of them. He also lost his hip-grip on the door in the process, and it hit the other guy as he was walking through it.
That wasn’t the stupid polite gesture, though. I’m guilty of that, because I stopped and helped the first guy pick up his boxes, when I should have just laughed at him. Or at least stabbed him with a Maori spear.
So please … if you’re thinking about being polite to someone else, consider the tremendous damage you could be doing to our society, and reconsider. And if that doesn’t make a difference to you, then think about what’s TRULY important:
It might be bothering ME.