I’ve been married for 25 years, he’s never been and hasn’t been in a relationship since grad school. We’ve been best friends for over a decade now, having gone to undergard/grad/law school together and worked together for years. DH likes and trusts the guy, even though he does not like the fact that we sometimes share dinner together when DH is out of town or out with the guys. We have a lot of mutual interests that are not shared with the husband.
Everyone says we have this ‘love thing’ going on, and we do tell each other we love one another (but only in private). We have a great deal of self control, having never acted intimate above hugging/linking arms/brushing limbs in passing.
Just had to say it because this is killing me. I don’t know how all this came to such an emotional point after all this time but something’s changed in our relationship.
Having just re-read what I’ve written, it’s no wonder I don’t post often…(goes back into the hole from which I came from)
Anyone else ‘hung up’ on someone they can’t or shouldn’t have?
Yes. I had/have a crush on a woman who is not my wife. But it didn’t go anywhere near this far. We only touched twice, when one of us stumbled and the other caught the stumbler. Mostly because she broke off contact, to be honest. Still, that is what you need to do. How you can do it, I don’t know. We don’t work together, and as long as I’m careful timing my workouts, we don’t see each other. Either that, or come clean with your husband.