I think I saw my X-girlfriend today at the mall, but she is supposed to be like 3 hours away, back where I used to live. Thats what broke us up was the distance, everything was perfect till I moved here, infact I think we’d still be together if I hadn’t moved here.
If it was her she didn’t see me, or she wasn’t sure if it was me or not, I have a goatie and changed my hairstyle.
But she looked exactly the same if it was her, if not she has to have a twin.
Damn why didn’t I make that one work, she was great.
I kinda just stood there as I saw her walk by, trying to figure out if it was her or not.
Well who knows, honestly she is the only X I would get back with. I thought about trying to get in touch with her once, awhile back but, when I called her mom, she said that she had moved in with some guy.
And then listened to her mom say how she hated that me and her daughter had broken, and that I’d always be her favorite. (her mom loved me to death) She thought I was such a “good, level headed kid” haha I had her fooled.
Well anyway this was just something I had to get off my chest.
I dated a guy for three years in high school. Then I moved out of state to go to college. The distance was hard on our relationship. But the death blow came when I decided I wanted to date this other guy at college. Dated him for about four years before we had to call it quits…let’s say it was religious differences.
I mean, I knew it was over long before it was technically over, but when someone tells you, “I respect your beliefs. But I want to go back to church, and I want you to support me, and because I view your beliefs through the narrow view of my own, I don’t think you can support me unless you believe the same things I believe,” you know there’s nothing to do but cut them off. (Actually that’s not a direct quote.)
I kept college guy around a lot longer than I should have. Mainly I kept him because he was useful. Yeah, I’m a bitch for doing that. Point is, he wasn’t worth breaking up with high school sweet-heart.
Not that I have any delusions it would have lasted this long with us in different states. Still…
Oddly enough, I e-mailed high school sweet-heart just a couple days ago. Don’t know why. Haven’t had contact with him in years.