The SO and I had an argument Friday night. I tried to avoid it, but couldn’t. Yesterday morning she took her phone, wall charger, laptop and cord, and drove off. I’ve not heard from her in more than 24 hours.
I suspect she plans to move out. I suspect that she’s waiting until I’m not here (tomorrow) to come get the cat and her things.
The cat keeps going to her room, as if to look for her.
I emailed yesterday, saying the cat misses her and I miss her. She keeps her phone turned off, as she only uses it for outgoing calls, so I haven’t phoned.
your first post said you tried to avoid the argument - maybe the best way out of a major disagreement (and it sure sounds anything but settled) is* through.* have it out, don’t sweep it under the rug.