You have been liberated from your bondage, Thea. Ignore those who say you’ll get over it. That’s like telling you that you’re an idiot. Because the work ethic your bosses want you to have is the work ethic that will do your bosses the most good, and you the least good. It will make you crazy, because you can never win; the better you do your job, the more they need to keep you right where you are, doing your job. Promotion? No way. Then what would they do without you?
The American workplace has lost its ability to appreciate quality, or effort, or effectiveness, or intelligence. Through a long slow process, it has arrived at the point where only the truly mediocre can succeed, or the completely ruthless. If you’re a good, honest, hardworking person, you’re so screwed it’s not funny. Really not funny. Jay Leno level not funny. The good, honest, hardworking people are the self-effacing, efficient, non-squeaky wheels who will inevitably get the shaft from some self-promoting useless git who knows nothing about working, but knows how to make themselves look good.
Which, believe it or not, Thea, is good for you. Really. Now that you know the secret, you can cruise through your work with a smile on your face as you present the appearance of competence, and fulifill all the idiotic demands presented to you with a smile, while watching the inevitable disasters that come of unquestioning and unconcerned underlings. Let the nonsense of work flow over you with aplomb; you are now above it all.
Spend your efforts in making your life better; work hard and well at projects you enjoy, that will make nice things for yourself and your loved ones. Excel at producing things of useless beauty that bring joy into the world.
And for forty hours a week, work just barely enough to bring home sufficient money to keep yourself fed and amused, and try not to let it get on your nerves that most of your potential to help whatever business you work for has been lost. It’s not lost to you, remember; it’s lost to your employer. And they, quite honestly, don’t deserve it.