What exactly does this mean?
Like how they act towards each other and the things they say. Maybe mannerisms wasn’t the right word? O_o
Not saying anything about whether your question is or is not made up but there are plenty of people who have a particular fantasy or fetish and like to start threads about that subject so they can fap to the responses. They usually start that thread as their first post. They usually never post in any other threads.
Great, do you skydive?
Ah well, not fapping. Drinking but not fapping.
And if it must be known he said he’s not into it. Buuuuuut it’s ok, we’re all still good.
Uh… FUCK YES.
[SIZE=“2”]But not really no, I’ve never tried.[/SIZE]
I take it you’re new to the Internet?
Haha na I guess I just don’t explore much
I agree with what has already been said. If you guys have had 3somes, and they’re both aware of your feelings, communication should be all that is necessary to see what he is and isn’t open to. You don’t have to talk to him face to face, you could even text him so that he has time to think it over (Some people prefer written communication so they don’t feel pressured).
Poly relationships are 110% built on communication IMHO. If he’s comfortable with being naked in a bed with your husband, he might surprise you with what else he’s comfortable with.
Have they kissed or touched each other before? Other than joking around, have they expressed anything that might resemble intimacy? During your 3somes was the attention solely on you, or were they intimate towards each other? And will this be JUST a sex thing, or a solid relationship between the three of you?
It’s good to figure out exactly where it’s going.
Aw, that’s too bad. I had a feeling this was going to be one of your top ten best first posts.
This is a recurring theme on Dan Savage’s podcast: “Me and my partner/friends/entire book club are having 27 different kinds of kinky sex but I’m not sure if they’ll like a 28th - what should I do?”. This inevitably results in Dan shouting “USE YOUR WORDS!” at the caller/writer, pointing out how silly it is that people will engage in all sorts of sexual behaviors with someone and yet be too shy to talk to them about the sex they’re already having.
(I’m not picking on the OP here - just observing that people are weird sometimes.)
What is: “Stevie Smith’s rejected first draft”? 
Yeah that would’ve been nice but you never know what could happen in the future. I kind of introduced my husband into anal play and now he’s in love with it.
Have you considered introducing him to vacuuming?
Regards,
Shodan
Lmfao
Sounds like there is little you haven’t explored :eek:
Lol in that aspect, true. XD well not everything
My immediate thought upon reading the title: “welcome to the Dope”.
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Haha well I’m glad you enjoyed the post? I love sex and needed a little advice, so I could imagine other people do too… and with a title like I put, it’s intriguing. ;D