I was listening to some Lobo hits and was enjoying How Can I Tell Her. Great melody, very romantic. Until I realized the song’s character is a real POS, cheating a-hole.
Kind of unusual for a romantic song to take the cheater’s viewpoint.
The first cheating lovers viewpoint song I remember hearing was 50 Ways to Leave Your Lover - Paul Simon. What a great message for a kid in junior high. I started dating in another couple years. Already knew how to dump my gf before I ever had one. :rolleyes:
Not sure if this one would count, since technically he’s only trying, and it winds up being his “own lovely lady” anyway, but maybe Rupert Holmes “Escape (The Piña Colada Song)” ? :dubious:
My favorite disguised break-up song is “It Ain’t Me, Babe,” by Bob Dylan. He spends the whole time talking about how he’s never going to be around for her if she needs him, then, slipped in so innocently you could miss it, is:
I actually think that verse was left out of the Johnny Cash version, which changes the whole tone.
Another song that came to mind is Leonard Cohen’s “Bird On a Wire.” Great poetry, incredibly bad advice. The whole thing reeks of a rather egotistical mindset, and although his cheating isn’t obvious, it’s implied when he talks about trying to “be free,” especially here: