I faced these same questions for the last few weeks. I have done a lot of reading since. I also seem to be popping up on most of the threads about big screens or surround systems, so I might as well reply to yours too. First, I would recommend doing some reading at Wiki as a starting point. It will explain a lot to you and make you realize other questions that you may want to ask. I would recommend the sections on HDTV and DVD’s to start.
As far as pros and cons (off the top of my head)…
Pros:
Plasma: thin, wall mountable, nice picture, available up to 80-90"
LCD: thin, wall mountable, light weight, low power consumption, no burn in, very sharp
Rear projection DLP/LCD: thin compared to CRT’s (ie. 14-20" deep), light weight compared to CRT’s (ie. 70-100lbs for a 50"), no burn in, good price point (cheaper than Plasma or LCD)
Rear projection CRT: cheapest, proven technology
Cons:
Plasma: Heavy, fragile, high power consumption, still more expensive that most other formats, less longevity?, suffers from burn in?
LCD: only available up to 46", expensive in large sizes, screen door effect, may have poor contrast, ghosting
Rear projection DLP/LCD: project bulb wears out (generally user replaceable), not true blacks, colors may not be as good as some other formats
Rear projection CRT: big, heavy, bulky, image not as sharp
As far as cites, with a little Google-fu, I’m sure you can come up with plenty of reviews of the various technologies. Some will dispute some of what I wrote. For example, the burn in problem with plasmas is hotly debated. By asking yourself a few questions, you can find the right technology for you. How much do you want to spend? How big do you want the screen? Will you wall mount? How long will it be on each day?
Once you figure out which technology will work the best, then you can start looking at other things like inputs, native resolutions, brand comparisons, and a hundred other things.
For the record, we ended up going with a 50" Sony 3LCD WEGA rear projection LCD. It’s rated highly at Consumer Reports and still managed to fit into our price range.