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[li] Long, nice legs[/li][li] A sense of humor[/li][li] A sense of style (any style will do)[/li][li] The ability to carry on a conversation[/li][li] Confidence[/li][li] A warm smile[/li][li] Shyness[/li][/ul]
And finally…
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[li] Being as into me as I’m into her.[/li][/ul]
My favorite Doper! 
I mean, there are specifics, but that pretty much sums it up.
Hmmmm.
There’s gawking/spectator sexy–which covers a happy multitude of purely visual sins: a flop of hair, bony wrist, wide shoulders, a certain slouch…
But for pure to-the-gut zing it’s integrity combined with centerdness,intelligence and humor. Forget stature, face, build–piffle. The wrapping is just eye candy.
The real deal is hard to describe but unmistakable. Could be a glint in the eye or a glint of comprehension. Forget the trappings, somebody’s home in there.
Grrrrr.
Veb
Many, many things, but I would largely just be repeating things others have said, so I will simply say:
Lesbians.
And no, I don’t mean like in that Saturday Night Live sketch. But not porno movie lesbians either. There has to be a happy medium…
Bare shoulders. Any woman’s pair will do.
The sexiest thing a woman can possess is the ability to blow my
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Lola is the sexiest woman I have ever met.
Well, at the moment I must say I find Tygr pretty damned sexy.
My biggest turn on are Cars: Muscle cars are especially sexy. '67 Sting Ray, 66 chevelle, and a '68 mustang are some favorites of the top of my head.
But when it comes to people? Um…Confidence is #1…Intellegence is a top hitter as well. As far as looks are concerned: Tattoos…big ones: I’m not talking cherry creek flash you pick off the wall, I’m talking big stuff: sleeves, back pieces, etc. Yep, that’s sexy.
What does the kitty cat find sexy…
Hmm…
Soft guys, not really fat guys but guys that are nice and cuddly and soft when you hug them.
Eyes that are either two different colors or that change color. They’re just amazing, I love them.
Caring and kindness and just overall being sweet. I’m wored funny, a guy can kiss me on the forehead and whisper something sweet to me and I’l just think, “Take me, I’m yours.”
Spikes. As in spiked hair. I love it, it’s fun to play with, especially if the ungelled part is all soft and nice to pet. I’m just a hair person. Instead of looking at their eyes or their butts I look at guys’ hair first.
Playfulness. You have to have a sense of humor and willing to kid around with me.
Intelligence. Gotta know what you’re talking about and be willing to hold up a conversation.
Kitty
The sexiest thing is when your man cooks for you.
A northern Irish accent helps too
Dammit. That Moment was nineteen hours ago…
Arden at this moment, and for a great many moments following this one, I’m finding you sexy.
…and I am blushing at you saying that. [sub]Of course I’m also seriously considering adding it to my sig line…[/sub]
A guy’s singing voice. It doesn’t matter if he’s not drop dead gorgeous, but if he has a great voice…
TVeblen said:
<<<moves very quietly with dart gun at the ready>>> This species is virtually extinct…I must tranq this one for the preserve.
As for what I find sexy, I have a whole list of requirements:
[ul]1-Female.[/ul]
That’s the list. Everything else is negotiable.
intelligence
strength of character
sense of humour
ability to ‘get’ me (for some reason, this is hard)
responsibility
The ability to speak any second language is great. If not, then an accent just about makes me say “my place or yours?”
well-groomed
open-minded
short hair, clean shaven
sociable
good-smellin’ woooooo…
For some reason, I saw a picture of a Doper and just about fainted when I saw his thick, muscular wrist, with a bracelet on it. OH MY GOSH.
And holy cow, gimme a man in a uniform and I’ll just about faint… and I don’t mean a pizza-guy uniform. I mean Military, EMT, Fireman, that sorta thing. It’s a hero-worship thing with me, I think.
Confidence
A nice smile
intelligence
nice eyes
sense of humour
being down to earth
Red hair with green eyes. Yowza!
Knee-high boots
perfectly curly hair, not too curly
hair up in two buns (think sailor moon)
Nice 'tude
Pretty smile
Gorgeous hair
Smallish breasts and a soft tummy. (Not fat, just a little…squishy. Women should be a little squishy.)
Long dark hair. (Straight, curly, wavy, whatever.)
Dark eyes.
Legs. (Mmmmmm…legs…Yup, a woman’s gotta have legs. Luckily they’re pretty standard equipment.)
-Rue.
Talented hands. Long, strong fingers, controlled and deft…
(mmm…musicians and swordfighters…)
Self confidence and a power of person, I hate feeling like I have to walk on egshells around someoen. I want to know they can take care of themselves.
The rest is optional. good people are sexy in and of themselves. Self centered, shallow people can’t make themsleves sexy to me, even with the perfect body and hot car. While intelegence and soul depth will always turn me on.
Francesca! Sister! Your list is practically my list.
Here ya go, folkses:
[ul]
[li] Self-Confidence. A man who isn’t afraid to take a chance and trusts himself regardless of the outcome.[/li][li] Sense of humor. Extremely important. Make me laugh and I’m yours.[/li][li] Doesn’t get their ego crushed easily. It’s very sexy to me to have a man who isn’t intimidated when I fix my own car, use a chainsaw or replumb my bathroom. All which I can do. I don’t like treading lightly to preserve some guy’s fragile sense of self when it comes to these kinds of things.[/li][li] A man who isn’t afraid of being sexual or of his sexuality. It’s that raw animal thing.[/li][li] Assertiveness. Note that I didn’t say “agressive”. There’s a big difference. I’m an assertive woman; sometimes I don’t like to be the dom all the time.[/li][li] Nice body. You don’t have to be ripped (ick), but defined is nice…mmmmm…very nice.[/li][li] Body comfort. Comfort in his own skin.[/li][li] Gentleness.[/li][li] Thoughtfulness. Doing the dishes once in a while without my requesting it is very wonderful.[/li][/ul] That’s good enough.
Meadea, I am ALL with you on the hands thing. Generally the first thing I notice about a guy is his hands. Long, strong hands make me want to just…[sub]edited[/sub]…until he [sub]edited[/sub].
First of all, I’m surprised that this thread hasn’t gotten more responses. Normally when the any derivation of the word “sex” appears in a thread, it’s a posting frenzy.
Now then. Sexy women. Ahem.
Pigtails. Good God, pigtails.
Cutoffs
Wearing sneakers without socks. Oddly, I don’t have any sort of foot fetish, but I’ve always found this sexy. Maybe it’s the ankles…
Midriff baring shirts. If a girl’s belly button is out there, I tend to drool profusely. Especially if they’re wearing jeans too.
Oh, and elfkin477?
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