(Warning Sensitive subjects ahead)
How do you picture God? What do you believe His thoughts are toward you? What kind of personality does He have?
I want to point out an aspect of God you might not have thought of before, and then I would be interested to hear what others on this bboard feel about God, one way or the other.
The aspect of God I want to focus on is this …
God is the ultimate Father.
He is the perfect loving parent. He shows consistant love and acceptance to His children. He always disciplines His children in love, never in harshness. He rejoices when you succeed and he weeps with you when you come crashing down in failure. He laughs with you when you are happy, and He cries with you when you are confronted with tragedy.
Something I’ve noticed over the years is that most people’s image of God seems to be intertwined with their image of their earthly father. If the father was accepting, loving, firm, and kind - that’s how they see God. However, if the father was harsh, antagonistic, arrogant, and verbally abusive – that is how they see God. In the worst case, you have a father who sexually abused the person as a child and therefore they can’t see how they could ever fully trust God. This isn’t universal, but it is very common.
I’ve also seen people with horrendous backgrounds have their image of God restored. In one of the most extreme cases I’ve ever heard of, I met a woman in Texas in 1990 whose father got her to be a prostitute when she was young. And that’s the mild part of it. But I must say that when I met her, as she put it, God had healed her so totally of the wounds and scars that it was as if those things had never happened. She didn’t pretend they didn’t happen … she knew fully they had happened and God had healed her so much that she had a wonderful view of who God was. In fact, when I met her she was teaching about God’s love in seminars.
The point is this … I truly believe God can heal any wound, no matter how drastic and no matter how deep. He can heal your image of Him and cause you to see Him as He is … a Father who wants to love you forever. No matter how Godly your earthly father was, he was imperfect. Everything you wished your earthly father was, God is.
On top of that, God wants to adopt you into His family so you can experience His fatherly love, if you aren’t already His.
Now, having said that, what is your image of God? I’m not interested in what you think I think God is like. I’m not interested in “the right answer”. I’m curious what you actually think, as well as any response to the idea of God as the ultimate Father.
(NOTE: Obviously I mentioned very sensitive subjects just now. I hope everyone will be very gentle as people share their feelings).
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