What do you want?

I want my boss to hire more staff.
OR
I want to say no to outrageous overtime without feeling like I have to justify it. But all my coworkers are pulling insane hours, and if I say no someone else will have to work it.

It just sucked today that I was pulling a double and couldn’t leave when my son went to hospital.

I’d like to figure out with some finality whether I want to pop the question to my GF or not.