…what would it be? Your ideal Christmas present that would make your life so much better? I would want: a good female friend, living nearby, maybe next door, but not intrusive. The kind of friend who is always optimistic and good natured, close as a sister, energetic and interesting, with a fun messy family she would give me updates on. We would always be there for each other in bad times, guaranteed! She would insist on doing all the driving (I would pay gladly for gas) when we went on road trips, would pick me up at 4 a.m. if my car broke down, and of course we would be the same size so we could borrow each other’s clothes! … I have a few friends, and each has one or two of these characteristics, but not one person with all of them, darn it!
If I couldn’t have this good female friend, I would love to have a reliable chauffeur available 24/7 to drive me, friends, or family anywhere, at any time. Up to the 7-11 at midnight for ice cream? Done! Trip to Florida, California, Canada - we’re on the way! And carry in my groceries, keep gas in the car, take the thing in to the garage every time it needs work done, get it inspected, oil-changed, washed…what a luxury!
I wish I knew how I felt about myself, my future, a certain female friend of mine, everything. For as long as I can remember I’ve been so confused about life…I really wish I could just figure it all out.
A nice house near San Francisco, paid off and with the deed in my name.
We used to have a nice house near SF, but when the economy went bad, my husband lost his job and after a year and a half of unemployment, the bank got pissy and we wound up moving here.
I want telecommuting jobs for myself and my husband that would let us live wherever in the world we want, and $500 000 - so we could pay off the farm, rent it out to our roomie and her mother, and move to Arizona so I could go to school on the side and get my doctorate in archeology. [the money is to pay the last remaining 5 years on the farm, and buy a new house in Tucson, pay for shipping all our crap and my university costs.]
All of my family, blood and chosen, to be living in the same area. Happily. In a place I enjoy living, too.
I’ve spent over 40 years choosing between 'Friends, family, steady income or a place you like living: choose two".
A new Pacemaker that didn’t come with another $10,000 in medical bills after insurance.
New knees now instead of 18 months from now when medicare kicks in.