What is conformity?

It seems like everyone wants freedom, but if everyone wants freedom, doesn’t it mean that wanting to fight against conformity is conformity?

And what do we do with so much freedom? If humans were meant to have freedom, then why were rules established in the first place? Would a world without rules and laws work?

In this hypothical situation, I don’t mean that we wake up tomorrow and it’s been decided that there will be no laws, but what if the conditioning of a free world was subjected to our children? And then their children, more and more freedom each generation until the world is completely free. Would it work if we went back to basic human instincts?

If not, then what’s the point of fighting for freedom?

This board is dedicated to fighting ignorance, not fighting for freedom. But welcome anyway! :smiley:

In the spirit of fighting ignorance, I will point out that GQ is reserved for questions that have definite, factual answers. Your question smacks of imponderables, and might fit better in Great Debates, or In My Humble Opinion.

One could ask a moderator to move this to either one.

Since the OP is soliciting opinions rather than arguing one or the other side of a point, I’ll move it to IMHO.

Welcome to the SDMB!

I’ll have to go along with whatever the person right before me posted.

Welp I’m not much of a thinker but I’ve had a couple tonight and figured now’s as good a time as any to start spouting off. I think what you’re actually asking is whether freedom (or the desire to be free) equals conformity, 7, not whether freedom is worth fighting for, nor what conformity is.

The answer depends upon your deifnition of freedom. What does freedom mean to you? Does it mean the total absence of any work, responsibility, or societal changes? Does it mean that you have the means and the right to do whatever you wish, whenever you wish? Does it mean the right to live your life unfettered by government, taxes, or an exchange system? Does it mean, as you mentioned above, a return to basic instinct? Even then, would you be free?

To a great extent it is impossible to be both free and alive. You are not free to ignore food, water, or air. You are not free from aches and pains, growing older, losing loved ones, even dying. You are not free ignore your enviornment, if you do it will kill you. If breathing is conformity, call me a conformist.

Define freedom, otherwise there’s not really an answer to your question(s).

Oops… as you can see, I’m still a newbie and need to figure my way around things… :smack:

Anyway, welby, I was asking whether freedom is worth fighting for. See, I’m still pretty young and I just don’t get what all these peers of me want to fight conformity for. No one wants to be told what to do 24/7, but living without set rules is dangerous too.

I’m not sure myself what I mean by freedom, but I think it just means we do whatever we want. Of course we can’t ignore the things that keep us alive, but I’m saying would the world work if there were no reprocussions for killing? What if we were allowed to shoot up all we wanted and not get arrested?

If that were to happen, I guess it’d be survival of the fittest for us again because right now that theory isn’t evident in humans.

What all this is about, really, is questioning the idea of fighting conformity. What’s the point when it’s going to make us into a bunch of wild monkeys?

Well then it sounds to me as if your friends are fighting for anarchy, not freedom. I’m guessing you’re in high school, which is about the right age for kids to start to rebel against thier parents, society, and “conformity.”

Would the world “work” is there were no repurcussions for killing? Had we developed that way, likely our society would “work” in one fashion or another. Even if, for example, society collapsed and the current standard of valuing and preserving life were dropped I’m sure some form of society would develop, and it would more likely be much more restricted than the one we currently live in. Imagine not wanting to sneeze in public because someone might decide to kill you for it?

As for people being allowed to “shoot up” (by which I assume you’re referring to heroin) I’m all for it. What would happen is the same thing that happened when all of the “killer drugs” were legal in the US: Some people would get addicted, some people would not.

I think perhaps you’re confusing freedom with free will. You have the freedom to do much more with your life, education, and future than all of the people who have lived on the earth before you. It is your exercise of free will that determines how you use that opportunity.

If you (or your friends) want to rebel against “society” and “conformity”, though, it might do you well to remember that without this society, it’s laws, and the “conformity” of following them, many of you wouldn’t have made it past childbirth.

(I think you’ve got that backwards, he was asking why people wanted to fight for freedom, not why people should be conformists.)

Okay, long post, sorry.

Fighting for freedom is a comedy example of societies convinced they’re onto a good thing without having a clue what it is. Take for example any liberal state - if they do even so much as a vaguely repressive action, there is inevitably far more uproar than if an already repressive state does something similar. The states that HAVE freedoms, (not that I really think there are that many that count at the moment), are the ones that are criticised most for illiberality.

Any good John Stuart Mill fan can tell you that much. The way freedom seems to be touted in adverts for any war-based merchandise is ‘freedom from the threat of attack.’ That’s a shallow sort of freedom, because the threat is created (in a sense) by all the nonesense brewing around it in the media. Regardless of how much of a threat it is, it’s not really imposing on your freedoms in any meaningful sense other than by fear. And the fear is not caused by the threat, directly, but by its mode of presentation. So being ‘free’ from this sort of thing is something only a particularly dull people would value as synonymous with ‘freedom’, because ‘freedom’ people take to be something more related to choices and individuality in day to day life.

The way it’s touted by Mill is to further the ends of man ‘as a progressive being’. As in, not just what we want today, but what future generations will also want. It is also much more internal to society than this contemporary notion of ‘freedom’ from terrorism. America certainly has an eye for the first sort of freedom we mentioned above, but I’m fairly certain people will eventually realise how vacuous it is when that freedom is taken as far as it can be. In other words, if America was all there was, there would be far more disatisfaction than when America has something to victimise itself against. (The same goes for the UK to an extent…)

But the other sort of freedom is severely lacking, and it’s the sort of freedom you’re on about - social norms.

There are certain rights that people have to have towards one another that comes with being part of society. No arbitrary murder, at least some protection of property, possibly some basic economic rights to trade and that sort of thing. Those are what you need for your society to get off the ground. (It’s a bit of an issue what counts for this.) But above and beyond that, it’s not a right of someone you’re violating by not-conforming, but just causing them some form of offense. For example, a gay couple walking down the street holding hands can cause outrage in a religious purist etc. but that’s only because of his sensibilities. He’s got an internal reaction to it based upon what he thinks about that sort of thing. Does his offence outweigh the right of the gay couple to walk around?

It seems that so long as it is merely offence, then really, no, it doesn’t. It’s not up to us what other people are offended by - if people genuinely valued freedom, in the meaningful sense, then they wouldn’t BE offended. The purist might think ‘well, I don’t like that sort of thing, but I know that it’s in society’s best interests to foster freedom so I’m going to bite my tongue and walk on by.’ So, for example, the people complaining about those who voiced opinions against the war are not defenders of freedom in the slightest - they’re the moral majority perpetuating the despotism of social custom. Similary for those like the Klu Klux Klan or religious fundamentalists and televangelists etc. Anything fostering a closed group. Certainly some christian groups are fantastic in accomplishing the opposite, but it seems in the US that many christians are christians by name only, only christians in the dogmatic sense.

But should liberty be valued? Outside the rights I mentioned above, yes, it should - but it probably never will be. A guy called Lord Devlin once said that ‘society could not exist without intolerance’. Devlin was staunchly illiberal. But he was right, I think, about that much. The defence of liberty goes that if people are free (in the freedom-from-societal/governmental-repression sense) then they should be able to achieve ‘the highest and most harmonious development of their faculties into a complete and coherent whole’. That is, individuality. Because through individuality, you can be happy, cultivated, whatever term is best. Free to choose what you want to do without thought for what others want you / expect you to do etc.

But some people just don’t want to BE individuals - they want to be the best of the conformists. Mill’s idea of liberty was generally rather high-brow. I’d say he thought that only 1 in a hundred people would make use of it. But I think the problem he saw was that even if most people were never going to make use of it, it certainly wasn’t fair to shackle the people who could think for themselves into the mundane grey-shaded life that the majority set their store by.

So in that sense of ‘free’, the US and UK and so on certainly are not nearly so free as they purport. They are better than many states, but there is a growing sense in which a large shadow is being dragged around what we have of Mill’s highbrow approach - it’s becoming dangerous to speak out. There shouldn’t be a concept of speaking out - you should just speak! Speaking out implies some sort of adherence to norms.

There’s nothing wrong with aiming for any useful form of freedom, and I reckon those who can understand the value of freedom should aim for it - but you have to remember that freedom is not anarchy and it is not a right to go around being ostentatiously provocative. If you violate the interests of others you deserve to be punished. (But the interests should from their liberty to develop themselves and not from their socially-formed opinions.) And if you can avoid offending people, then perhaps you should do so. (No one wants to be surrounded by people having sex or getting drunk and throwing up everywhere… a time and a place, as a maxim, perhaps?) Whether ‘shooting up’ counts as a freedom or a repression of yourself is a problem for any definition of freedom. I think Mill argues that people should be ‘free’ to do that, providing they know what it’s going to do to them. (And remember, that for Mill, it won’t be a societal compulsion to look cool that will motivate the taking of it - it will have to be a considered decision - because the societal pressure isn’t going to be there.) But whether he’s right that societal pressure on the individual can be removed, I have no idea.

So there are several points: One, distinguish between forms of freedom. Secondly, don’t take that form of freedom to be too loose. Thirdly, establish the point of that freedom and make sure that it’s understood what that point is, or people will start confusing interests with opinions. Fourth, ask yourself whether people should be free to conform if they wish.

But if you’re interested in this sort of thing, do philosophy and become the next Rorty.

-James

Conformity is when you do as others do on purpose, in order to be part of the crowd, in order to fit in.

If billions of people think that eating half-decayed road kill is gross and disgusting, and you happen to be of the opinion that eating half-decayed road kill is gross and disgusting, that’s not conformity unless you hold that opinion just to go along with the prevailing opinion.

The tricky part is that most people are unaware of the extent to which they have embraced opinions due to those opinions being popular among the people they associate with. Or, more to the point, the extent to which those are the opinions remaining to them after they’ve sort of lost interest in or ceased to care about opinion-worthy subjects where they originally embraced opinions contrary to those popular among the people they associate with.

Does this help?