Some preacher I once listened to pointed out (and I’m sure this is quite a popular cliché) that the marriage consists of ‘I will’, not ‘I do’
(Although I’m not sure if this is actually universally true)
I was going to be “funny” and say that I’ve learned that the secret to marriage is compromise … and do it her way. But all of you are so dang thoughtful!
Tell me, of those who say that the physical chemistry is way high on the list, how many of you are married past seven years?
I lust after my wife. But as far as the success of our marriage goes, it is much more important that I am committed to her and to the process of growing with her and her she becomes.
I can’t find the reference, but recall thinking this quote was right on in regard to chemistry
Chemistry is up on my list, and we’ve been married for seven and a half years. If you include our engagement, its been 9 years.
Not saying that chemistry is the MOST important, but its definitely one of the factors. Chemistry is one reason why I can’t wait for Mr. to get home at night, and why he comes home rather than go out with his mates.