Oh crap. I think we dated the same girl.
Mynn: That’s not really a bizarre fetish per se, but I think I can see why he liked pajamas over lingerie.
It’s all about innocence, really. What kind of underwear did he like you in? I’d be willing to bet he wasn’t a thong man, preferring plain cotton bra and panties (maybe with those little bows… wait, that’s me). When you come to bed dressed in Frederick’s of Hollywood’s finest, the message is clear: I want to fuck your brains out. When you come to bed dressed in a nice set of pajamas, the message isn’t quite as clear (not to mention the fact that you don’t look like, for lack of a better term, a slut. Nothing against all you Doper women who like the lingerie). You look innocent. More interested in sleep than anything else, maybe a kiss and a cuddle. Maybe you do want to fuck his brains out, but right now we’re dealing with his side of the cranium.
Men being men, chances are he does want to fuck your brains out on any given night. But now, he’s not so sure of your motivations. He’s going to try harder. He’s going to try to seduce you, whether it’s necessary or not. After all, half the fun of innocence is spoiling it.
For a lot of men (myself and I suspect him included), token resistance is better than none at all. With lingerie, there’s little to be removed (crotchless panties and porthole bras notwithstanding). There’s a bit more effort involved with pajamas: Unbuttoning the top, pulling off the pants, the removal of the underthings. It’s a bit like unwrapping a present.
Oh my. It appears that my wee-wee has been stricken with rigor mortis.
My Ex wanted me to strangle her during sex… 
Wierd.
Heard from a friend whose ex-GF always wanted to swallow his cum. If he came inside her or in a condom, not in her mouth, she would be upset.
:: looks down at her blue and yellow flowered jammies ::
So, TM, how YOU doin’? 
There was that episode of CSI where people got off by wearing large animal costumes.
I could have gone my whole life without knowing about that one.
Doing just fine, sunfish. So fine I forgot to mention the tactile experience of pajamas. Lingerie tends to be a silky-type fabric, and usually doesn’t cover much. PJ’s tend to be cotton or flannel, which feels nicer to me. It’s also nice to feel the bits underneath through the cloth, and of course one can always run a hand or two underneath the jammies.
yeah ivylass, Cosplay is what yer talkin about. i think dressing up in big animal costumes is fun, but i just think it would be quite uncomfortable to do the deed in one of those things.
I believe you’re mistaken, Sandlegs. Cosplay is generally people dressing up like anime characters and going to conventions.
What ivylass was describing sounds more like a practice known as fursuiting, typically performed by furries. I’d provide links, but you could try Google for the italicized terms (as well as yiffing). Also, for the love of god and all that is holy, don’t Google those at work!
“Masking”= wearing female-faced latex masks. I can’t find the link now, sorry.
I was on eBay looking for mardi gras masks and came upon a person selling these eerie looking female latex masks. I can see some guys wearing them to try to be a woman but I have heard of women wearing them, too. Some of these masks have eyeholes and some do not. All of the masks I’ve seen were painted to look like make-up was being worn, big red lips and blush. I’m not trying to judge but if I saw someone wearing one, it’d creep me out a bit. Very blank look to the mask.
'Suiting just involves dressing up, not neccessarily having sex in costume. (Although, you can, if you want - no fuzz off my nose.) And not all furries are 'suiters (of either stripe), just for the record. And searching for ‘yiff’ won’t really lead you to a lot of descriptions of suitsex. More likely regular furry porn, and dictionaries of terminology.
And there’s a lot of Cosplay porn out there. Trust me.
As to the op, someone I know rather enjoys the image of pretty men covered in blood - their own, usually.
Masks of any kind creep me out intesely.
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I’m of the Rough Sex type. My nails are all pointy and sharp (for about 4 years now). I REALLY enjoy clawing up backs and admiring the aftereffect.
Now, I don’t do that unless I’ve been given permission. And I can enjoy sex without it, it’s just a controlled kind of sex. Which limits the “so passionate you can’t see straight” kinds of thing.
But that’s not too creepy, right?
Yeah Tenatacle Monster, i believe i did get that messed up.
i get furries, plushies, plushophiles ( they are the same thing right?) and cosplay all mixed up all of the time.
I stand corrected
hold on, waitaminit, wasn’t there a diary type MTV television show about this furries thing? (maybe True life?)
They followed this guy around to furries conventions and such and he hooked up with this guy, and i think they did stuff in their suits.
but that’s just my memory.
oh ok nevermind, here is a linkhttp://pressedfur.coolfreepages.com/press/sex2k/
I knew someone who got a sexual thrill out of being peirced. She looked to have as many peircings as Roseanna Arquette in Pulp Fiction, and said the first time she was peirced, she got sexually aroused, so went back. When it happened again, she was hooked. I believe could probably qualify as swiss cheese at this point.
I met a man (well, I say “met;” he was on a BART train I was on, and I did NOT give him my name) who had a hair fetish. He just walked up to me and said “do you mind if I touch your hair? It’s just the most amazing color (red), and I have a thing for beautiful hair…” I got off on the next stop and waited for another train. That was just too creepy.
Everyone has some type of fetish to some extent, I think. One specific thing that turns you on more than anything else.
I’ve heard of…
…men getting excited over women sitting on balloons and popping them
…men getting excited over women squashing bugs
…men getting excited over watching women getting their hair cut or shaved off
…men getting excited by women wearing glasses or smoking
(Personally, I have some sort of height fetish. The shorter or taller a women gets from the norm, the more exciting I find it.)
There was a thread a while back about a guy who wanted to kill and eat a willing victim. He actually found someone (a co-worker of a Doper) to be “volunarily canabalized.”
If it gets any weirder than that, I don’t want to know about it.
Armin Meiwes and his friend
I dated women that had some pretty strange habits and one of them I am pretty sure was a fetish the other may well have been, but she might just have been weird, and I knew another woman who had what I considered a pretty weird fetish.
Men in Tuxedos. We found out about it one night when I had to wear one to go to a ceremony. We had been affectionate before this but while I had that thing on…wow! She attacked me when I arrived to pick her up, was all over me when we were at the table…we ended up retreating to a closet during the dancing. And then when the thing was over we went back to her place and it once again very passionate until I was naked (usually my body is not quite that much of a turn-off), then when I got dressed and ready to leave, she was all excited again.
The relationship died soon after. I could neither afford to buy nor regularly rent a tux to keep the passion up. My parting comment to her was that she should look for a head waitor to date next. I won’t print her parting comment.
Stuffed Animals. This young woman would only make love if we were in a bed surrounded by stuffed animals (she easily had 100 of them). OK, one time it was on a couch with them and another time it was on the floor, but even then she had to have them all around us. I would always get the feeling they were attacking me as they tumbled on to us as we rolled around the bed. I must say there were times I was glad they were there, however. When she climaxed she would grad one of the stuffed beasts and literally bite holes in it. After awhile with her I kept getting the feeling that the survivors were glaring at me saying, “You’re the reason Tigger is dead!”
The one I knew was a good friend and she enjoyed wearing and using diapers. I found out because she had just lost a boyfriend because he couldn’t handle the fetish. She showed up at my office and asked me if I thought it was really weird. It was one of those “friend” questions that you know what the person wants to hear, but you also know what the truth is. I buckled under the pressure and I told her it was “charmingly weird: more eccentric than really weird.” OK, OK, I lied.
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Thanks for giving me the information I needed to find the thread yojimbo:http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=174724&highlight=meiwes
A gay man I know once got picked up by a wealthy middle-aged man on a visit to San Francisco. They went back to the older guy’s place and retired to his mirror-lined bedroom for some “relations.” Turns out that what the older guy wanted was to run around the room, naked and masturbating, while the younger guy threw women’s purses at him. He had quite a collection of them expressly for the purpose.