Like TV Time’s friend, I’m into infantilism. Google at will. Not an overly active practicer, but like Stinkpalm, my partners have always been surprisingly willing to participate.
And all this pajama talk is making me sweat. Wooeee.
Like TV Time’s friend, I’m into infantilism. Google at will. Not an overly active practicer, but like Stinkpalm, my partners have always been surprisingly willing to participate.
And all this pajama talk is making me sweat. Wooeee.
TV Time:
Go to Men’s Wearhouse, buy an inexpensive tux. Well, two so you can rotate them to the cleaners.
TM:
I like your explaination, but not sure it fit that guy. I asked him over the course of the years we dated to explain it, and the closest he got was … a rather short Oedipal-sounding explaination. At that point not only did our relations change but our relationship (he joined me in the “more serious about us” car of the relationship train where I’d been cooling my heels a while).
Man, this is like Toys ‘R’ Us for perverts. Got two or three things here I never even thought about. Like full pajamas on ladies. A little reluctance, the anticipation…
So, uh… how you doin’?
OK, I gotta go take a cold shower now.
No. They are not.
Plushophiles get off on sex with the latter. (Or with 'suits.) Annoyingly, they’re also referred to as ‘plushies’.
None of the above should be conflated with fursuiters, although there is overlap in all cases.
Tengu: Ghastly’s Ghastly Comic has a great strip on just that subject. I’d link to it, but keenspace don’t play that.
I wonder what the record is for “most people aroused by a single post.” I’d like to think I’m in the running. And I know at least ONE of you guys got a chub on my mermaid post.
I feel like a jaded old broad. There’s not one single fetish or unusual sexual practice here that fazes me at all. I’ve seen them all and know people who do much, much “worse.”
missbunny: Please, do share! Any practicioners of axillism in your circle of friends?
I have a feeling Ghastly might violate the SDMB ‘one click’ porn rule, too.
Olentzero- It’s good to know that I’m appreciated. Hehe. I’ve had a lot of guys complain if I “lost it” for a minute and acidentally dug my nails in a little, without blood. Sigh. I know they’re just not into it, but it can make sex frustrating.
not really a fetish, but an intense intrest:
I get off on making someone wait to pee, particularly to the point they can’t wait anymore, and wet them selves. kinda a cross 'tween BD and watersports.
**SilverSerpentine[/b[I can’t tell from back-clawing, but I’ve had my neck bitten pretty hard during a session of “intensive cuddling” (“making out” just sounds so…high school). The pain just added to the sensation in a most interesting way. Of course, the big, lurid bruises weren’t fun to explain to everybody the next morning.
At least you’re considerate enough to inflict wounds in places people won’t wonder about at work Monday morning.
Personally I dont’ get the foot fetish. I can see or almost see the just about any other fetish but foot-toe sucking et al I just can’t seem to get my head around.
As for mine, well, I respectfully remind the readers of the rights granted me by the 5th admendment of the Constition of the United States.
But it hasn’t been mentioned yet.
I have a fondness for using a TENS unit for sexual stimulation, makes a good combination with ligh bondage. I also enjoy anal stimulation but (unfortunately) I don’t find men sexually attractive.
The glossary of this site has a fairly extensive list of paraphilias (there are links to porn, but it doesn’t appear to have any pornographic imagery itself, although some of the descriptions are illustrated).
Some interesting ones:
-Siderodromophilia: arousal from trains (I think we all know what that’s all about…)
-Suturing: stitching flesh together
-Taphephilia: arousal from being buried alive (pretty much in tune with the Meiwes thing, I suppose)
-Autassassinophilia: arousal from orchestrating one’s own death by the hands of another (I found this one weird because it’s so specific)
-Capnolagnia: arousal from watching others smoke
-Flatuphilia: arousal from having partner pass gas
-Gomphipothic: arousal by the sight of teet
-Hodophilia: arousal from traveling
-Homilophilia: sexual arousal from hearing or giving sermons
-Hybristophilia: love of someone who has committed an outrage
-Ochlophilia: arousal from being in a crowd
But I get the feeling some of these were made up…
And, no, I’m not telling mine even though someone might have already mentioned it in this thread.
So that’s how you got the handle!
C’mon, Sandlegs. Nobody has sex and doesn’t know about it! I mean, at least one of them knows about it, surely… :dubious:
Ok, after frivolous post, I guess it’s time to fess up.
Someone above mentioned fetishes being inborn, and another their being imprinted at an early age. I think they can also be discovered/created.
Here’s why. I dated a girl way back in college, and it turned out we both liked it outside – no fetish there, imo. Then we discovered that the risk of being caught was also a big turn on for both of us. Getting just a little kinky now, I suppose, but hey, excitement is excitement. Then, we discovered it was really really exciting if it was also raining.
Getting all 3 of these to coincide was a trick, b/c if you’re outside when it’s raining, finding a place where you can actually have sex but still pump up the risk factor… Anyway, the more specific and therefore unusual it got, the more of a turn-on it became. I wonder if there’s something behind that w/ some of the more unusual fetishes.
PS: My other half thinks the idea of getting excited about being outside in the rain near other people is really daft.
I don’t believe there is a chance in hell of specific fetishes being inborn, though I do believe a tendency to imprint sexual desire on inanimate/non-sexual objects could be inherited.
I had a GF who liked for me to bite her nipples during sex, the harder the better. Hard enough to draw blood on multiple occasions, which was apparently even a bigger plus for her.
The pajamas thing is one of mine. Even better if my partner doesn’t get completely undressed, say with the top still on but mostly unbuttoned.
I’ll toss out mine that I haven’t seen mentioned yet. I like to be tickled mercilessly. Especially combined with light bondage. I’ve been in the odd state of being in tears, begging for them to stop and being incredibly aroused all at the same time. Don’t know quite how to explain that one.
Them?
Rowr!
I like to be bit too. The harder the better. There are some mornings when I wake up and pretty much my entire neck is purple and bruised. What people must think! He’s never actually drawn blood, but I probably wouldn’t mind if he did.