Some may not feel comfortable discussing this even behind the veil of the internet, but for the rest: What is the most degrading thing you enjoy being done to you?
For me it is when an ex-gf called me while f*cking some other guy. She did it to piss me off but I actually found it arousing 
Is there a term for that scenario?
“Cuckolding fetish” is close, except for the “ex” part of “ex-girlfriend”.
If I had been that other guy, I imagine it would have put a bit of a damper on the mood. “Oh, wait, I just have call my ex, he needs to hear this… hello, ex? OK, he’s on the line, continue.”
Or maybe the other guy had that as the degrading thing he enjoyed having done to him.
I have no idea why but I get a bit turned on when a girl thinks I don’t know she is using me. I think it is a turn on because I know I have an easy way out when we are done.
… posts stealth brag accusations
Hey, my psycho ex used to do that because it turned him on, and I was pissed off by it.
That’s a stealth brag? I actually find it embarrassing to admit, AND annoyingly it made me a bit jealous. Which I also find embarrassing to admit! In theory it could be kind of flattering I guess, I mean that’s what I told myself, “Hey, he’s still that into me after me not speaking to him for years”, but in truth I really wish it hadn’t happened. I guess because I still have the most futile wish in the world that he wasn’t a complete nutcase/asshole/drama queen who would do shit like that.
But now when he calls me trying to have phone sex, even though I won’t do it, *that *kind of turns me on in addition to pissing me off.
I don’t find the things I do for my girlfriend degrading at all. I enjoy them.
I actually get a little uncomfortable when she reciprocates. I’m a little self-conscious. It’s hard to just let go and enjoy it.
Probably all sounds worse to the rest of you than it really is. I’m weird but not that weird. I hope.
I agree. I much prefer doing things to someone over having things done to me.
…which can cause some problems in Thai massage parlors. Not that I would know about that, of course.