What is the opposite of feminism?

The BBQ Pit
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No he’s not right. But, go ahead and cry about how things used to be. It’s just so sad how everything no longer goes your way.

I remember when all the jobs were mine, now I gotta share with all those stupid minorities. Waaah! Just the other day it was perfectly all right for me hang the niggers till they jerked around like spastic chickens, now I can’t even chase them outta my own damned neighborhood with a two by four before someone calls the cops on me. Sniff, sob.

Remeber when how the wimmin used to know their place? That place sure wasn’t as my boss. Now I gotta go to work and have some cunt order me around. It aint fair I tells ya!

I want it to be fair, just like it used to be. Comon guys, let’s all go down to the village and beat the crap outta some fag. We can still get away with this mosta the time.

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The solution to being poor is obvious. Get a job. If the job does not pay enough, get a better job or several jobs. If a better job requires better education, get better educated. If holding jobs limits access to education, get educated part-time or on-line.

You are on-line, so you have access to higher education, so you have the ability to make yourself more employable. This should take poverty out of your equation, leaving you with only gender and ethnicity to be considered.

If you are concerned about affirmative action programs preventing people of your gender and ethnicity from obtaining higher education and successful careers, then come up with credible evidence which shows white males holding proportionately fewer higher degrees and fewer high level careers than people of other genders and ethnicities.

You ask what scholarships are available to poor white males. A great many scholarships are available to people without reference to ethnicity or gender.

You complain about having difficulty in getting a novel published. This is common to most novelists regardless of gender or ethnicity.

You note that many ethnic and gender groups have programs available which open doors. You fail to note that many predominantly white male organizations exist for the purpose of opening doors ostensibly without regard to ethnicity or gender, and you fail to note if you have participated in such organizations.

In short, what you have presented in this thread indicates that you have confused your own personal inability to succeed, and your own personal inability to recognize and take advantage of opportunities, with affirmative action available to other groups. This type of thinking – inductive generalization – might have something to do with your difficulties. I suspect that even if there were no affirmative action programs out there for anyone, you would still face significant challenges in obtaining your career goals. Either change your career goals to something more realistically obtainable with your skill set as it now stands, or work on your skill set.

You state: “I am 25 years old . . . [and] I have gotten very little even after paying my dues.” I suggest that at twenty-five, you have hardly begun to pay dues. Why is it that you are posting your thread rather than hustling to balance jobs and school? Why are you spending time looking for excuses rather than simply persevering until you succeed? Time is money, so use your time to keep paying dues as long as it takes. Don’t throw time away unless you can afford to, for it is one asset which you cannot get back. At twenty-five, the world is your oyster, regardless of your being poor. Have the sense to open it, rather than being concerned about others opening theirs.

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nobody is sayinig that, nobody is saying ‘o, for the old times when we would have been able to jsut lynch this one, or send that one down the street, or beat the little lady etc’
youi got your probles, the things that wind you up, you bitch about them.

Well, so attack us for doing the same?

Shut the fuck up.

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inor, you ignorant slut.

This is exactly what the OP and your pal, thedoors, are implying. Things used to be fairer and now all these rules have come about making things so fucking unfair for us poor white males.

I liked it better before. Now everything is just too damn hard for me.

And no, I don’t feel like fucking right now, if it’s all right with you.

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Very wise words. Also very motivational words. Thanks LunaSea.

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nobody is syaing we liked it better before-
if you took the time to read my post previous to that, you would see I made the point that we don’t know how it was before- we are not those people, we are not the big, connected guys in the board rooms of america, we are not connected period.
we are down here in the mud along with the rest of you.

dipshit

and that’s good, I am pretty sure I wouldn’t fuck you with JDT’s dick anyway, thanks so much though.

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Hey, I never did any of that shit. Why do I have to pay for someone elses sins? I don’t oppress you. In fact, I don’t know enough about you to even tell you to fuck off properly. Go not shave your armpits or go get a 40 or whatever it is you do when you don’t have your hand in that bag of Fritos.
Bitch. Why are you going to great lengths to piss me off? I just call it like I see it. I’m sorry you don’t agree.

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Sounds like the last chorus of The Way We Were to me.

Intentionally piss you off? I don’t think that’s neccessary, what with you head so close to your dick when you got it shoved up your ass that way. And yes, I am a bitch. Certified. Twentyfour carat. Bitch.

inor, I see your debating skills have skyrocketed. And your wishfull thinking is getting in your way. You invited me to fuck, I declined. I never mentioned anything about fucking you. In fact the thought never crossed my mind. But I see it crossed yours. Well, have fun with JDT dick.

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All the rest of the channels are White Male Television.

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Wow, it sure is apparent why you guys are having such a hard time getting ahead in life. Attitude and behaviour can be big factors in limiting one’s potential, regardless of what perceived or actual disadvantages one faces.

I’m outta here. We can swap hardship stories another time, but for now, it’s time for me to go skiing with some folks who grew up poor and white and male, but have done something with their lives.

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You are not a bitch. You are a stupid[sup]*[/sup], trouble-starting, narrow-minded, double-standardsignifying, waste spewing, self-pitying, ignorant, putting-words-in-our-mouths-to-make-us-look-as-bad-as-you-can-for-no-other-reason-than-that-you-are-a Bitch

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And your wishfull thinking is getting in your way. You invited me to fuck, I declined. I never mentioned anything about fucking you. In fact the thought never crossed my mind. But I see it crossed yours. Well, have fun with JDT dick.

Saying fuck you is not an invite dear. You were the one who took it so, I simply responded to your misapprehension therefore you whole last paragraph defines your wishful thinking, none of mine. I believe this is indicative of the twisty ways your mind… well, your mind doesn’t seem to work at all.
I stand by what I said- you got problems, you bitch about them. I for one, did not go to your self-pity thread and shit all over it or misrepresent what you said.

You do it here though.

So again, fuck you (again, not an invitation, you date-impaired squit), fuck off, go lay down, stupid bitch/

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ps- I see no elements of debate in what you say- only the twisting-words, trouble-startingshit I mentioned above.
Your statement about debating skills being an almost intrinsic example

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Inor and Skarecrow…

What are we to make of all this?

We are just stating the case.

We are asking for the respect that “minorities” DEMAND.

I say just let it go.

We are a bunch of bigoted, sexist, rotgut-drinkin’, pickup truck drivin’, wife beatin’, nigger hangin’, sheet wearin’, trailer park trash rednecks, wouldn’t you agree?

I mean, I don’t sue for sexual harassment everytime someone tells a risque joke.

I don’t shout racial discrimination every time I get a speeding ticket.

I’m not oppressed by “The Man”.

I must be a redneck, then.

To Biggirl:

I wish I were a woman, so I could piss and moan :rolleyes: .

I wish I were black, so I could piss and moan :rolleyes: .

But I’m not, and since I don’t oppress you people or anyone in your families, why don’t you try to understand a different point of view, instead of your brainwashed, it’s MY turn to be in charge PC bullshit. I empathize with everyone. I really do. But attacking me for having an opinion that is different from yours AND is not without truth will NOT make me want to understand you.

It’s people like you that create bigots with YOUR intolerance. I try to understand what evryone has been through, but I WILL NOT PAY FOR 200-YEAR-OLD SINS COMMITTED BY PEOPLE I NEVER KNEW. Are we clear?

I hope so.

I really hate being this pissed off.

By the way, Biggirl, will you go out with me :smiley: ?

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You know me? you know any of us? You know how pleasant I may or may not be at work? You know who I’ve seen get ahead of me?

You know what I do to maintain/get ahead?

no, you don’t.

But when I or someone like me bitches about my/his particular problems, you seem to think you have the requisite knowledge to make comments about shit you don’t know shit about.

I don’t even know you, and sure ain’t gotten on you directly for bitching about things you’re going through.

So, do, go skiing. It’s for the best.

And you Matt- you’re like that guy in the 80’- he was black and he hated black people- you have no sense of humor as far as I can tell, take yourself so goddamm serious it makes me want to puke, and I got no use for your intellectual drive-by, chickenshit style. Fuck off. Again, not an invite.

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and yer right- I’m gone.

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A bitch I am. I suppose I should take the self-pitying part to heart considering it’s coming from the master. You can’t beat a white hetrosexual male complaining about how unfair life is for unsubstantiated self-pity.

So, is JDT’s dick that bitter? I mean, it is in your mouth isn’t it? Or is there some other reason for the nasty bitterness spewing forth from it? If you have a problem with me personally inor (I can’t see how you have, since the only time I’ve ever interacted with you is on this thread, but, hey, it’s nice to know I have a following) you can start a “Biggirl is a self-pitying, ignorant, putting-words-in-your-mouth thread.”

Let’s get back on track here. inor, thedoors,. . . are you through blaming other’s for what is beginning to look like a serious personality problems?

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I don’t have serious personality problems. As stated before, I call it like I see it. I don’t go for all this PC stuff. I work hard, I play hard, and I don’t like being called a redneck when:

a)I was answering the OP

b)I was saying what I thought with certain examples in mind

c)Hi, o lovely Cat of Opal

d)I am, in fact, oppressed, both at my job and away from it (examples by request).

Like I said, I empathize with everyone. I’m not here to be an asshole. I am here to state my opinion along with everyone else. I just lost my temper bhecause NONE OF YOU know dick about me, my situation, my problems, etc. Sorry.

By the way, Biggirl, what about that date :smiley: ?

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Ah, thedoors, as much as I agree with you on your opinion of The Doors and contrary to what inor believes to be my dateless existence, I am a happily married woman.

There are no problems here expressing unPC like opinions. Just expect to have your opinions disagreed with. You can also expect a rousing good debate with other members of this board-- check inor’s link. Enjoy your stay here at the Dope.

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Let’s all take a tip from Mr. Stewart and just get up off the ground, that’s all I ask. Get up there with that lady that’s up on top of this Capitol dome, that lady that stands for liberty. Take a look at this country through her eyes if you really want to see something. And you won’t just see scenery; you’ll see the whole parade of what Man’s carved out for himself, after centuries of fighting. Fighting for something better than just jungle law, fighting so as he can stand on his own two feet, free and decent, like he was created, no matter what his race, color, or creed. That’s what you’d see. There’s no place out there for graft, or greed, or lies, or compromise with human liberties. And, uh, if that’s what the grownups have done with this world that was given to them, then we’d better get those boys’ camps started fast and see what the kids can do. And it’s not too late, because this country is bigger than the Taylors, or you, or me, or anything else. Great principles don’t get lost once they come to light. They’re right here; you just have to see them again!

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Thanks. I know it’s the Pit, but I didn’t mean to be a total tool. I just lost it for a while. You be OK in my book, even if you are a bitch :wink: .