What is this song? "And I am, making all my own choices, I'm in conrol of my destiny

Yes, I am, doing it my way, doing what feels good to me…"

It sounds like Frank Sinatra’s My Way, but those lyrics aren’t exactly the ones you quoted, so maybe not.

No, I heard it in a mix preceding Chimera’s “Show Me Heaven”… It’s a pop/trance/whatever tune…