I never denied that colleges have mixers, hangouts, parties, and lots of activities for their students, esp kids between 18-21…they do!..but for kids who are in college, primarily ages 18-21 and who are dependent on their parents for their support.
Hey!! College clubs are great!..However, this person said she is in her mid-20’s, so meeting a young immature 18 year old unemployed college kid, half of which still live at home with Mommy, “for a prospective date” is probably NOT what she is looking for.
No. She did not say she is looking to get into new hobbies, “as well as meet men”. Her objective clearly is to meet men. Meeting men, for prospective dates, above the college age, is apparently her main objective, and she doesnt seem to want to get all sweaty just for the smell of it.
I recommended a sportsmans club taking up shooting since it is heavily, but not exclusively male, but it is composed of males who fawn over women wanting to learn the shooting sports, and sportsmans clubs are primarily social , have mature men over age 21, lots of single men from all walks of life and all spectrums of income. I cant think of a better hobby or place to get a bunch of men to surround you.
Sure, if you are 1 in a million who look like Shania Twain then almost any activity will find men following you, but for most women who invade male territory, the shooting sprots is alone in any female easily getting a large, over the age of 21, single, employed, wide variety of male following.
Yes, I invite criticism of my idea, and even I" would like to find something different other ideas that tops my idea, that is a better place to find men who flock to a new, all around average single women , has a place to hang, and is so friendly to newcomers.
I would love for you guys to come up with something better than what I have found, so her question and my posts are for me too.
Most “activities/sports clubs”, that you guys have come up with, are pretty much JUST activity, and not necessarily all that welcoming to beginners, esp beginners who dont want to exercise for exercise itself and they dont have a brick and mortar hangout where you can regularly do social activities. The Elks, Moose, Shriners, Rotary, VFW, are full of old people, mostly married, who like to drink and not really physically do much of anything - BUT THEY ARE SOCIAL ORGANIZATIONS!..so the trick is to find a social organization that has young single men who can afford to do lots of stuff, not just shoot guns or drink beer.
Here again is what she said: