What to do? Nothing?

So, the word ‘Asian’ is an ethnic slur, how?

You, and all others who are complaining about the poor abused girl are in sad shape. You are too locked into your paternalistic Quixotic missions.
If you, for one moment, don’t think that the girl ***knows ***that she could get the manager’s ass into deep trouble for forcing her to wear an objectionable name tag that depicts a protected class, you are deluding yourselves, big time.

What, do you think that the OP was the first to notice the name? I’ll bet, tho, that OP was the first to try and make an issue of it, and to try and ‘save’ her from the great Occidental Beast; that’s why she said ‘it was the manager’s idea’. She didn’t want to go into the whole process for some officious schlub’s information, while she was working. That is, of course, unless he hadn’t already terrified her and the other poor illegals he has locked in the back room, threatening them with the INS, or ICE, unless they work for substandard wages, into giving that response!!! (/sarcasm)
You guys need to snap out of it.

Yeah, managers never have sex with employees, do they. And when they do, they don’t touch each other, do they? If nudity offends you, and people touching each other during sex, don’t procreate.

BTW, I am an old white man myself, so, that is why I took the liberty.

Because she lost her balance?

I don’t think we need to be offended for her, she can report the guy herself if she feels the need.

Nooooo, but Asian Princess is pretty rude. Plus a whole lot different from wearing a pendent of national pride, which was what you were comparing it to

This is way off the subject and you’re being obnoxious. Please dial it back.

I don’t know what this woman’s medallion is or looks like, but if she’s not being forced to wear it and it’s not sexist or racist, I don’t care one way or the other.

Being proud of your heritage is a little different than a grown woman being called an “Asian Princess”. You notice it didn’t say “Asian math genius” or “Asian future chemical engineer” (which are still stereotypes, but at least they aren’t demeaning ones).

Whole lot of crazy in one post.

All this penis grabbing, I’d just wanna make sure she washed her hands before handling my eggs. And I’ll take my coffee black, thank you.

How so? How am I supposed to get my servers’ attention at a busy restuarant or thank the guy at Sears that rung up my purchase. Say, “Hey you food lady” or “Thanks guy behind the counter.”?

I for one would much rather be an Asian Princess than an Asian future chemical engineer.

That probably brought more customers into the place than their cooking did.

Not GrumpyBunny, but I’m 99% sure he meant the name on the nametag was inappropriate, not the idea of a nametag itself.

Exactly so.

And I’m a “she”, not a “he”. :slight_smile:

You can’t say they are all stereotypes-at not correctly. They are descriptions/adjectives. To say ‘he/she is a math genius because he/she is Asian’ is a stereotype. Pay attention to what you’re writing.
Your words show you are in above your head.

You know if she decided to wear a necklace that read “Asian Princess” it would possibly be okay. Personal jewelry choices have a wider range. Even in the personal jewelry choice there can be a limit though: an Italian American wearing something that said “wop” or a Jewish person wearing something that said “kike” would be inappropriate. But her choice or his, on the nametag “Asian Princess” is inappropriate, worse if it was his choice.

BTW, the Penthouse fantasy that hh is in his bunk with, would also be inappropriate even if by apparent consent. A boss having a sexual relationship with an employee is too fraught with implied coercion.

BTW number the second, you are wrong hh: “Asian math genius” is a stereotype. You are not in above your head but it is deep inside one of your less appealing orifices. :slight_smile:

BTW, did she confide to you that she was forced to wear it? I missed that part. Or, did she object to it? Or, did you just ‘sense’ as much?

Sorry, you’re as wrong as the other. The whole thing to make it a stereotype would be “Asian=Math Genius” or some such.
Learn grammar, and manners.

Well…hearsay is a legal term. It’s not admissible in a trial, but I think it would be fine in a phone call.

Rather than run around all cloak and dagger, trying to get people into trouble, without knowing the facts, why not ask “Asian Princess” what she thinks of it?

Or you can call management and have them look into it, rather putting the waitress in a position of having to complain about her boss to a customer who can do very little about it. If management looks into it they can decide if it’s a problem, and may even have a past record of other poor decisions this store manger has made.