I was talking just the other day to a 15-year-old (read: soon-to-be-driving) friend about “first cars”.
OK, I’m not about to offer a giant sobbing lament about having been a spoiled kid, but I think I kind of missed out on that whole “first car independence” thing, where a kid buys his/her first car with his/her own money, and experiences the pride of owning a CAR (even if the passenger side door won’t open and the backseat smells like cat pee)! My parents bought my cars until I graduated from college, and they didn’t believe in buying used, so I never had the cat-pee car growing up.
Now, however, I think I’m making up for it. After a couple of years in San Francisco (where I didn’t need, or have, a car), I inherited my brother’s 1988 Toyota 4-Runner . . . in 1999, which means I was 29 before I got a title in my name. My family tried to convince me to trade it in for a new car, but I wasn’t having it.
I. LOVED. THAT. CAR. His name was Big Red, and he was the most amazing piece of machinery you’ve ever seen. Big diagonal silver stripes, faded seats pink (er, “Oxidized Red”) hood… beautiful. Last year I sold him to a nice young fella named Travis, for three reasons:
a) I was spending about $1500 a year on repairs (on a $2K car), and
b) because it was my (late) brother’s car, watching it deteriorate was more of an emotional thing than it would otherwise have been.
c) I fell in love with a 1973 Lincoln Mark IV.
The Mark IV thing didn’t end up happening (long story), so I was suddenly in the market for a car.
I then schlepped my ass to dealership after dealership, looking at new cars, and was just sorely disappointed. All of the cars I test drove were so… sterile, so boring. Plus, they all looked like jelly beans on wheels. No character whatsoever. And for this, I should take out a loan???
So I started looking at ads in the paper for older cars… I made it a rule for myself that I couldn’t get anything OLDER than Big Red, in order to try to keep myself in line…
… but I ended up with a 1986 BMW. Cracked dashboard, ONE tinted window, passenger side window that won’t roll down, antenna that won’t retract… and the trunk smells like cat pee. (Now THAT’s character–and for cheap, too!
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I. LOVE. THIS. CAR. 
People think I’m nuts… but I think I’m just making up for having missed out on the typical Teenage Car Experience.
Really, it’s a very happy feeling. 