What were you THINKING?

Y’all are focusing on the name part, but saying it’s possible a woman is intersex because she didn’t have kids is way more insulting and idiotic.

I’m baffled by someone who would find out a woman doesn’t have children and think, “hmm, maybe she’s not actually a woman.” I am horrified by someone who would share that thought with others.

Have y’all not met nearwildheaven before? This is totally on brand for him.

Insulting and idiotic, yes, but there’s at least a causal relationship, there. The name thing doesn’t even have that.

The name thing was just plain idiocy. I have a higher tolerance for idiots than bigots.

Agree. Insulting.

You didn’t specify “intersex” in your original post. That only came up here after you were called out, and to be clear, it doesn’t make a lick of difference to how offensive your post is. Mmmkay?

It’s incredibly distasteful, bigoted, and stupid to think that the possibility a person might be either trans or intersex is worthy of being a “favorite” celebrity rumor. FAVORITE RUMOR? Dear god. Please don’t tell us your runner-up favorite.

Also, thanks to @TroutMan for pointing out how offensive it is to speculate that she might be intersex because she doesn’t have children. There’s nothing wrong with being intersex or trans, of course. It’s just odious to indulge in ignorant speculation about a topic that’s so deeply personal.

Childless women are not rare at any age.

Absent personal knowledge of personal circumstances, any conclusion about an individual childless woman isn’t based in fact. So it must be based in something less real. And far less honorable.

FWIW nearwild didn’t create any of that. Those exact idiocies as the basis of baseless speculations have been around for decades I think? I’ve heard them before.

It is close to calling her mannish because she has short hair.

Come on. Just nasty.

Of course it was nasty; but it was nastiness that originated decades ago, not an original creation, it was repeating an old rumor, and I am sure that her specific brand of beauty contributed to the nastiness.

Are you claiming that’s an excuse for continuing it?

nearwildheaven doesn’t belong in this thread. There’s another for their ilk.

She not only brought it up, she spread the rumor with her stamp of approval.

No? Not defending; observing.

And the phrasing of “may have some truth to it” is really dumb. Without that though it would be completely fair to include as in keeping with a thread that gave a rumor of a baby sacrifice as part of a rock concert as its example rumor that is hard to believe has legs.

Still it is an example of a crazy rumor that has been around a long time that has quite a few idiots repeating as truth (citing the same reasons they believe it). Which was the thread subject?

Her, not him. She’s like a Gladys Kravitz who spends all day breathlessly spreading rumors on every website she can find. Even her “breaking news” threads are her trying to be the FIRST with bad news, regardless of its importance - often with “warning, trigger alert!”

Not only was it redundant to my point, but it actually made what you wrote worse.

I think that was intentional (what’s good for the gander is good for the “gander”).

Ooh, I completely missed it. Thanks.

Very good, @Thing.Fish!

Wasn’t it Jeebus who said something like

    The credulous you will always have with you. And boy are they a pain in everyone’s ass.


My take: Grow a filter or go home.

Although, ref @DSeid, I’m slightly mollified to learn that the JLC rumor is long-standing misongyist / nonbinary-phobic garbage, not something nwh whipped up on their own just yesterday.

Except she gave those idiotic reasons as being actual sensible reasons, which she said meant the rumor might be true.