I’m not talking about insults directed at homosexuals, but insults slung by one straight guy to another.
In other words (foul language ahead. Please ask your kids to leave the room), why, when guy1, pisses off guy2, does guy1 hurl insults at guy2 like, “Why don’t you blow me?” “Lick my nuts!” “Take a long, slow suck on my asshole!”, etc.?
I’ve had stuff like that said to me many times when someone got pissed off at some wise crack I made. But the insults were always said as a half-assed attempt to get back at me. In the insulter’s mind, he was one-upping me and putting me in my place, or, “What do you think of that, smart ass!”
I can’t see it as homophobia (unless it’s a suppressed Freudian deal) . If the insultee confronted the insulter as to why he wishes a straight male to perform homosexual acts on him, I’m pretty sure that what pissed off the insulter originally, just made things worse and fisticuffs would ensue.
Do women use insults like that? “Suck my nipples, bitch!”, etc.? So, my question is; why, when a straight guy asks another to perform homosexual acts on him, considered an insult to the insultee?