When approaching a member of the opposite sex, whats the first thing you look at?

I’ve been told in the past that I look at a certain part of a woman’s anatomy as soon as they approach and that I’m obsessed.
I’m sure it is not consciencely, so I make a special effort to look at her face.
I’m not obsessed!
I’m doing the breast that I can.

I think I speak for most men in that if the woman is wearing tight fitting pants/jeans/shorts, our eyes zero in on camel toes or just the crotch area in general.

My ex never believed me about this because why would any man want to stare at a woman’s crotch. (I know, how stupid/naive can one be. :wink: ) This was until one night there was a skit on Late Night with Conan O’Brien. The skit was called, “Camel toe’d Annie” and featured a girl in some tight lycra pants with an obvious vagina prosthesis in the crotch area accentuating the “camel toe” look and was gyrating to some silly music.

Women can be so naive or in denial when it comes to men. She also had very large “raisin-like” nipples (perpectually hard and erect) and she only liked to wear thin bras and had breast implants and was a size 36B-C. But instead of wearing an appropriate bra to conceal her nipples she’d complain (seriously) about men staring at them. Go figure. :smiley:

My .02 ladies.

his face :rolleyes:

Since the chance of anything else being exposed is slim to none, I tend for faces. Hell, there’s little reason to look at another girl’s boobs in the first place. I’m not scouting talent, so to speak.

I don’t pay any attention to men staring at my chest area, since most of them are eye level with it anyway :smiley:

Whatever draws attention to itself.

Just thought I’d share something here about being too distracted to look.

I was rushing through Zellers (like WalMart) in search of a green turtleneck for my youngest to wear at her Xmas concert. I had only a little time to locate and purchase this item before attending my oldest child’s Xmas concert. Hence I almost bumped into a man at the intersection of two aisles. Distracted I barely looked at him as he waved me on saying ‘You first Blondie’. It was only when I’d walked away that I caught a glimpse of him in my peripheral view… He was a hunk!

Still kicking myself over that close encounter.

I’ve been told that ladies often look at a man’s shoes, not nessicarily first, but early, when sizing up his physical appearance. Any truth to this?

AHA!!!

You didn’t post im my thread where I was upset about the fact that I have trouble with girls that are taller than me! Now I see!

Okay I am kidding of course. But SEEE!!! I knew there were women like this. I too am strangely attracted to taller girls :frowning: :wink:

I prefer girls to be a good bit shorter than me. I’m 6ft1 and girls over 5ft7 I dont feel as comfortable.

My wife

I’m sorry, but I didn’t see that thread …

I know quite a lot of tall women (via the internet) and we’re all the same, we prefer tall men (6ft+) Nothing personal shorter men just don’t “do it” for me

so there’s no hope for me whatsoever :rolleyes:

Either I am a very very deep person, or I’m just oblivious to a lot of things. I have been thinking over the OP and it seems that I am not initially attracted to anything! I AM quickly turned off by some superficial things - combovers, really noticeably bad teeth or stink, but I can’t think of a feature in particular I zoom in on routinely.

I have found that a guy who’s not all that conventionally attractive physically can suddenly become quite attractive physically if there’s something else there. For a stupid but easy to recall example, I always thought Rod Stewart looked rather like a rooster - then I saw him perform live and I thought, “my, he has a nice tushy… and such beautifully shaped lips, too!”

Well, you have two options:

  1. endure leg-shortening surgery. Then you’ll be small, so you’ll find the sea of desirable men has broadend significantly

  2. move to Holland. That is where the avereage man is the tallest. Yes they are extremely tall in this country. If you have never been there you’ll feel right at home if you go there. They are all at least 5’11.