When did you first

16 her name was Michelle and she was 16 also. It wasn’t her first time. It was only about a month into our relationship. I wanted to wait and she didn’t. So we ended up doing it while her parents were just down the hallway. The relationship only lasted 8 months but the sex continued on for another year and a half. If I had the chance to do it again I wouldn’t. She was one of the biggest mistakes of my life and I still can’t forgive her for all the pain and the shit she put me through. Ok ok I got on kind of a ramble there but damn it just brings back a ton of bad memories. Well I’ll stop now and just think about all this stuff again and be in a bad mood for the rest of the day.

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It wasn’t me!

:slight_smile:

I was 18.
Nicky. He was 27 and we’d been dating for a year and engaged for 2.
We ditched my Senior prom as soon as we had the pictures made to make my mother happy. We waited, unlike most of my friends, because I had too many other things to worry about in high school without having to worry about sex.

We broke up 2 years later. Don’t ask me why I did that. He was rich, damn it.

I’m confused. :confused: You all were engaged a year before you started dating? Was it an arranged marriage?

I was 22, her name was April and she was 20, we did it in her bedroom at her parents house, and afterwords I came out with the dumbest possible thing to say at the time. I was laying in her arms and I say "Well now I know for sure that I’m not gay…and nope I had no doubts before that, it was a joke that backfired horribly…

Keith

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Her name was Jen, btw and she was 18, too.

19, sophomore year in college.

Lance.

We had been dating for all of 6 weeks. We continued dating for another 2.5, far longer than it should have lasted.

[li] I was 16.[/li][li] With Margaret (also 16, but not a virgin by any means).[/li][li] In her parents’ sailboat, tied up at dock, at night.[/li][li] She planned the whole thing. I was like a puppy at a picnic.[/li][li] We had been friends since we were 11, and we kept it up for another year, until my family moved out of state.[/li]
Then I didn’t get laid again until I was 21.

Heh. I couldn’t have dumped it if it had been.

We dated a year and then got engaged. We were together for a total of three years before The Big Night.

I was 14.

He was 34.
Biggest mistake of my life.
No more details.

16 years old, his name was Chris and he was 19. We had both been drinking. It was just a one night thing, until years later when we actually dated. He didn’t believe it was my first time when I displayed (apparently) an affinity to oral.
While I was working in Lake Louise (a resort town) far away from any parental guidance.
If any of you Canadian Dopers (especially you, detop, you stalker ;)) remember what the old $20 looked like, that’s what I was looking at. It was the Valley of the Ten Peaks at Moraine Lake.
Ever since that night, I have always smiled when I see the back of a $20.

I was 18, she was 19. I was a Senior in high school, she was a friend from said school who graduated the year before. I was visiting her at college.

She teased me all day long about how I was going to “get it”. Drove me nuts!
We did it in front of the fireplace at her Dad’s house while “Goodbye, Yellow Brick Road” was playing on the stereo.

It was romantic, it was sweet but it wasn’t until much later that I discovered how great sex could really be.

i was 20 [sub]wasn’t too long ago…[/sub]and so was she. it was the night after my birthday. i don’t regret the sex, but i didn’t really like her.

I was just about to turn 17. Her name was Vicki and she was almost 20 and had her own place.(her mother and my mother were friends) For some inexplicable reason, she found me very attractive. One night, she asked me for a ride home from work, got me plowed with beer, took me to her place, and deflowered me.:eek:
One of my fondest memories…

18
Wendy
Good Friends Before
Good Friends After
Slept with some of her good friends, after

26 years 4 months 12 days

Wife of a friend

Mother of an infant

Killed two birds with one stone,lost my virginity and broke a commandment in one night.

She was younger than me.

By the time you reach 30, you will have more regrets about the things you didn’t do, than about the things you did.

I still think of her.

We were both 18.
Her name was Melissa.
We first met in our coed dorm. She had broken up with her boyfriend a few weeks before and she was simply looking for some dick. A bunch of us had gone to a game store(yea, we were sooo cool) and afterward she just up and asked if I wanted to have sex. We eventually ended up going out and still are.

Fourteen. Yvonne. First time for both. No regrets.

Her name was Nora, she was a high school teacher who lived in the same apartment complex as my parents. I was 22, she was 36, I had helped her move in the past and she used to let me use her computer to go on bulletin boards, had never really thought of her in ‘that’ manner though she was a pretty attractive woman and very interesting. Well, one evening me and a friend were leaving my parents after I stopped by to use their phone, and as we passed her apartment she asked us to come in. She was pretty drunk, was celebrating getting her divorce papers finalized. She started getting really flirtatious, wasn’t very good at it (went a bit overboard) and when she would leave the room me and my friend would snicker about it. Well, she kept giving us wine, and we later burned a joint or two, one thing lead to another…her and I retire to her bedroom. While we are going at it my friend keeps sticking his head in the door, she’d say ‘He’s watching again’ and I’d yell at him to get lost. The combination of my intoxication, nervousness, and the condom kept me from reaching orgasm, after a few hours I gave up, and later masturbated while she slept. Neither her or my friend knew I was a virgin, but I told her and she was surprised.

I was, uh… I guess I would have been 18 at that time. Freshman year at college, I was involved with a girl that lived in my dorm. She had been ‘seeing’ a friend of mine when we first started getting together. We fooled around for probably a few weeks before we finally did the deed. I had known her for a couple months. We started dating, went out seriously for a while, were on again/off again for something like a year and a half, had plenty of “angry sex” and “make-up sex” and “get your new boyfriend jealous sex.” We’re still friends. Sadly, however, I haven’t gotten laid with anyone else. Come close a couple times, but averted it in some bad situations.
Regrets? Some, but on the whole I’m glad she was my first. And I certainly wouldn’t have wanted to wait any longer.